It started off With Our Friend "Joe"...and this one question "Can I Get a Date?" P.S. For all new readers (and all are truly welcome here), I do recommend that your first read should be the initial entry which was posted on September 27, 2010 (titled as 'Single Life')...this all started back then. Once you read the first entry, feel free to read any other in any order. Most importantly, please feel free to share and voice your thoughts. This is all our forum!
Thursday, August 22, 2013
What Works in a Relationship?
For starters, each relationship is a bit different...as per, each person is different...therein lies our dilemma...
But, a few consistent factors seem to help along ALL relationships.
For me,
My cool head and My understanding have never failed me. My calmness can overtake a typhoon!
(I am perfect for an anxious emotional mess)
Also,
I LISTEN! I may be part deaf, but I understand enough that when someone else shares something about themselves....it's relevant. This is what connects, or bridges two people.
Simple advice...but,
Communication is key folks.
There is more...
C O M P R O M I S E
Trust.
Respecting and understanding other people's boundaries.
With that comes certain private matters...should be kept Private.
(There is a time and place for everything)
Mutual Likes, or Dislikes.
NO NITPICKING! Learn to cut slack!!
Compassion, openness (but not too open if your partner can't handle it)
Care
Concern
Activity, trips, locations....destinations....Adventure!
Meeting and making friends.
Making plans with friends.
Learn....from each other (this takes paying attention)...learn from the world...as both will change (the elementary principle of evolution).
A kiss Good Morning, and an 'I Love You' at Night open negotiations and seal deals!
In other words
Freedom, commitment and Balance.
So...
This lesson
Should Basically Teach Us ALL
less Lip and MORE Tongue!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PMSs1VGCg4E&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DPMSs1VGCg4E
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