never trust someone who's Fine and Dandy
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=k3Zad39QXL4
Monday, January 12, 2015
Saturday, January 10, 2015
How to Have Sex on The First Date
A Gentleman’s Quick Reference to Sex on the First Date
85% of women that have sex on the first date really aren’t into it or even you so much. They have ulterior motives of trying to land you as a boyfriend for whatever their particular reasons may be…room and board, a new daddy for their kids, status with their girlfriends/family/etc., a new car, diamonds, travel, whatever their deal is. They’ll be good for a few more rounds, but if the relationship doesn’t materialize pretty quickly, then you’ll just fall into douchebag category like all the other men they’ve dated. Any way you look at it, this is the female version of objectifying a man’s body. Two star sex, at best, but I guess it’ll get the job done, right?
13% of women that have sex on the first date are doormats that are using you to stroke their fragile self-esteem. Be very careful, they’ll go psycho at any given moment…because they nearly begged you to bed them on the first date, and you did it. I know, like I said, they’re crazy. But, if you’re into that sort of thing, she’ll hang around for months and probably do your laundry and run your errands and whatever else you want her to, all the while stockpiling her resentments to unleash in a hailstorm of crazy at 2 in the morning when she finds some other woman’s car in your driveway. No matter that it’s your sister’s car..she’ll just accuse you of banging your sister and you will be dumbfounded in the driveway in your boxer shorts. Five star sex, but is it worth it?
1% of women that have sex on the first date are merely getting their rocks off. You are a nothing more than devices of short lived pleasure for each other. Think of it as mutual masturbation, with maybe even a shred of emotional connection. And it probably means she sees no long term potential with you, but thinks you’re hot. She’ll probably actually be pretty great as a person and in bed, but alas, this will be a one shot deal. Enjoy it for the night/weekend while it lasts, but beware your tender heart, because if you have feelings for her, you’ll be hurt for months. Four-five star sex that will be a permanent addition to your spank bank.
1% of women that have sex on the first date have fallen headlong into passionate love with you. If you’re not feeling the same, she’s going to be crushed, and may go a little nutso. If you are feeling the same, run with it and enjoy, she’s a catch and worth dealing with any drama, baggage and/or mild craziness…’cause we’re all a little crazy. No star rating here, it’ll be off the charts.
**Bonus** Any friends with benefits type of understanding falls into the first two categories in regards to motivation. The longer it goes on, the more likely one or both of you will be hurt when “The One” is found by either of you. By the way….”The One” is as unreal and mystical a creature as a unicorn. They don’t exist.
And if you’re wondering about me….well there’s a 1% chance. : )
Article by Beesknees12
"A Gentleman's Quick Reference to Sex on the First Date"
Online Dating Rules
Let's talk about a little chemistry...shall we?
There are no Rules to Dating...because each date is its own individual entity. When you take two people...two different and UNIQUE people...and mix them together, you will get a reaction. Each reaction is a result of a very unique combination between these two unique individuals. To plainly state that there is one specific generic formula to a successful date...think again.
Sure you can do certain fail safe deeds that ensures good impressions and great intentions.
But to say that if you do X, Y and Z you will earn Relationship Nirvana...it's just not that predictable. I am sorry...but it's not that simple. Why? Because we are not simple creatures.
Oh really? Yeah Really!
For Example: Sky diving might be a great date for someone like me...but nine out of ten women would absolutely not be as excited as I would be. Chances are, they'll run for the hills even if I suggest it.
So...am i wrong? Or...are they wrong? Well...we just might be wrong for each other.
Because of this...I just might shield my true being when I first meet a gorgeous woman...for fear that sky diving may not go over so well with her.
Finding the right counterpart is the hard part. Sometimes, when we first start dating someone...we don't share the right amount of our true selves....for a variety of reasons. It's during this gestation period that often sinks or saves the start of a potential relationship.
My Advice: know yourself, love your self....and be prepared to share the best of yourself.
Otherwise, the right match...just might miss the chance to make right on what has gone wrong.
Oh, yeah...second thought on second chances...?
Why not press those chances?
1. There will be (dare I say?) game playing. Get over it. You do it just as much as the women do it. There are many well-intended and ill-intended reasons for this, but for the most part we all need to recognize that we’re human and well, dumb, when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex.
2. We all have baggage. Get over it. When you find someone you care enough about, you deal with each other’s baggage. No need to hide yours, no need to condemn theirs or run from it. Just deal with it, dispose of it and move forward. If you can do that before you meet someone, all the better.
3. Love hurts. Get over it. As a matter of fact, if it does hurt a little, there’s probably some real potential there if you can work through it. The older we are, the more damaged and wounded we seem to be. Intimacy rubs your sore spots, but let it be the kind of rubbing that massages sore muscles. Work that shI t out, and figure out how to heal your wounds without inflicting too much pain on others.
4. There is no secret formula to figuring out the opposite sex. Have yourself figured out, understand yourself and be confident about who you are, baggage and wounds and all. Don’t expect someone to cut you slack and make exceptions for you. It’s just more bs and game playing. Handle your own business, and only date those that have theirs handled. Share your life instead of dumping it on someone. And here's the buried treasure. If you message me with an articulated and well thought out response to all of my rambling, I will respond in kind with witty banter and a normal picture of myself.
5. You can only love someone else at the capacity that you love yourself, respect yourself and value yourself. The same goes for them. If you aren’t feeling valued, respected and loved, then it’s probably more about their issues than yours. Don’t expect someone else to fill your voids, and don’t think you can love someone enough to fill theirs. It’s an individual, inside job.
6. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and to be vulnerable. Sure, you’re going to get hurt. But grow from it and be a better person for it. Don’t make the next person pay the last person’s tab. The more comfortable you are being yourself the easier it’s all going to go. The real you will emerge at some point, so why don’t we just start there?
7. There are lots of women out there that think sex is awesome. Get over your puritanical self-righteous self. Don’t shame them, belittle them or judge them because they “gave in” and had sex with you on the first date or too early by your own estimation, or didn't make you "work for it". Our lady parts have just as many nerve endings as your man parts, and you have just as many emotions attached to the act as we do...and we’re all adults with hormones and desires. Get sweaty, make some noise, laugh, enjoy it for what it is, buy her breakfast the next morning and call her the next afternoon. If you’re just out to get laid, say that from the get go, and give her the dignity of choosing what she wants to participate in. You might just be surprised.
8. We are all worthy of love, but we are all capable of it in different capacities. You don’t need to manipulate other people’s emotions to prove to yourself that you are deserving of love. It’s easier to bring someone down than it is to bring someone up, so try to spend your time with those that are right about where you are at. Learn from each other and be kind to each other; it’s not a competition, it’s a team effort.
9. There is no such thing as "The One". Three words...Get over it. If you still believe that then you believe in fairy tales and might as well be chasing unicorns to the end of the rainbow where your pot of gold awaits you. You make it the right relationship by investing in developing your character first, choosing a person of similar character, and working at making it the best relationship possible for both of you. Falling in love is easy (simple chemistry, really), staying in love takes effort. The more intentional and deliberate...the less effort required.
Article by Beesknees12
"I Tried Online Dating"
There are no Rules to Dating...because each date is its own individual entity. When you take two people...two different and UNIQUE people...and mix them together, you will get a reaction. Each reaction is a result of a very unique combination between these two unique individuals. To plainly state that there is one specific generic formula to a successful date...think again.
Sure you can do certain fail safe deeds that ensures good impressions and great intentions.
But to say that if you do X, Y and Z you will earn Relationship Nirvana...it's just not that predictable. I am sorry...but it's not that simple. Why? Because we are not simple creatures.
Oh really? Yeah Really!
For Example: Sky diving might be a great date for someone like me...but nine out of ten women would absolutely not be as excited as I would be. Chances are, they'll run for the hills even if I suggest it.
So...am i wrong? Or...are they wrong? Well...we just might be wrong for each other.
Because of this...I just might shield my true being when I first meet a gorgeous woman...for fear that sky diving may not go over so well with her.
Finding the right counterpart is the hard part. Sometimes, when we first start dating someone...we don't share the right amount of our true selves....for a variety of reasons. It's during this gestation period that often sinks or saves the start of a potential relationship.
My Advice: know yourself, love your self....and be prepared to share the best of yourself.
Otherwise, the right match...just might miss the chance to make right on what has gone wrong.
Oh, yeah...second thought on second chances...?
Why not press those chances?
"Soulmates aren’t the ones who make you happiest, no. They’re instead the ones who make you feel the most. Burning edges and scars and stars. Old pains and pangs, captivation and beauty. Strain and shadows and worry and yearning. Sweetness and madness and dreamlike surrender. They hurl you into the abyss. They taste like hope."
~ Victoria Erickson
1. There will be (dare I say?) game playing. Get over it. You do it just as much as the women do it. There are many well-intended and ill-intended reasons for this, but for the most part we all need to recognize that we’re human and well, dumb, when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex.
2. We all have baggage. Get over it. When you find someone you care enough about, you deal with each other’s baggage. No need to hide yours, no need to condemn theirs or run from it. Just deal with it, dispose of it and move forward. If you can do that before you meet someone, all the better.
3. Love hurts. Get over it. As a matter of fact, if it does hurt a little, there’s probably some real potential there if you can work through it. The older we are, the more damaged and wounded we seem to be. Intimacy rubs your sore spots, but let it be the kind of rubbing that massages sore muscles. Work that shI t out, and figure out how to heal your wounds without inflicting too much pain on others.
4. There is no secret formula to figuring out the opposite sex. Have yourself figured out, understand yourself and be confident about who you are, baggage and wounds and all. Don’t expect someone to cut you slack and make exceptions for you. It’s just more bs and game playing. Handle your own business, and only date those that have theirs handled. Share your life instead of dumping it on someone. And here's the buried treasure. If you message me with an articulated and well thought out response to all of my rambling, I will respond in kind with witty banter and a normal picture of myself.
5. You can only love someone else at the capacity that you love yourself, respect yourself and value yourself. The same goes for them. If you aren’t feeling valued, respected and loved, then it’s probably more about their issues than yours. Don’t expect someone else to fill your voids, and don’t think you can love someone enough to fill theirs. It’s an individual, inside job.
6. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and to be vulnerable. Sure, you’re going to get hurt. But grow from it and be a better person for it. Don’t make the next person pay the last person’s tab. The more comfortable you are being yourself the easier it’s all going to go. The real you will emerge at some point, so why don’t we just start there?
7. There are lots of women out there that think sex is awesome. Get over your puritanical self-righteous self. Don’t shame them, belittle them or judge them because they “gave in” and had sex with you on the first date or too early by your own estimation, or didn't make you "work for it". Our lady parts have just as many nerve endings as your man parts, and you have just as many emotions attached to the act as we do...and we’re all adults with hormones and desires. Get sweaty, make some noise, laugh, enjoy it for what it is, buy her breakfast the next morning and call her the next afternoon. If you’re just out to get laid, say that from the get go, and give her the dignity of choosing what she wants to participate in. You might just be surprised.
8. We are all worthy of love, but we are all capable of it in different capacities. You don’t need to manipulate other people’s emotions to prove to yourself that you are deserving of love. It’s easier to bring someone down than it is to bring someone up, so try to spend your time with those that are right about where you are at. Learn from each other and be kind to each other; it’s not a competition, it’s a team effort.
9. There is no such thing as "The One". Three words...Get over it. If you still believe that then you believe in fairy tales and might as well be chasing unicorns to the end of the rainbow where your pot of gold awaits you. You make it the right relationship by investing in developing your character first, choosing a person of similar character, and working at making it the best relationship possible for both of you. Falling in love is easy (simple chemistry, really), staying in love takes effort. The more intentional and deliberate...the less effort required.
Article by Beesknees12
"I Tried Online Dating"
Friday, January 9, 2015
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
Modern Day X-Men
what power would you want?
Personally, I would want to be an expert linguist...in all Languages.
But given these specific choice...I choose to be the Cat Whisperer.
http://emgn.com/entertainment/15-people-with-real-life-superpowers/?utm_source=taboola&utm_medium=referral
Personally, I would want to be an expert linguist...in all Languages.
But given these specific choice...I choose to be the Cat Whisperer.
http://emgn.com/entertainment/15-people-with-real-life-superpowers/?utm_source=taboola&utm_medium=referral
Friday, January 2, 2015
Fisher Wallace Stimulator
I know a person or two who might find a benefit here or there from some shock therapy.
Cheers to a New Year:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gSHAUmGqrHU
Cheers to a New Year:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gSHAUmGqrHU
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