Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Fairy Tail Endings

Don't get angry, it's not worth the emotional expenditure...plus, anger is a counter productive emotion!  No one, except anger benefits from anger.
Instead, 
I say get even while entertaining yourself...
Wouldn't it be funny, since you were right there front and center, if you tapped the woman on the shoulder and asked her "are you single?  Cause my boyfriend finds you hot, and he's even sucking his belly for you."
I wonder how all that would go from there.
Inquiring minds want to know. Oh, Wow...wow.
Who dat?
Best case scenario, you guys get a sugar momma!
Worst case scenario, everyone gets embarrassed and you prove your point of how you're not cool with certain things...considering that you were right there.
Doing that in a more private setting, well...then...ignorance is bliss.
Like a toad and the kiss...
Transforming him into a prince!
That's the difference between tadpoles and turtles.
Turtles live so much longer.
Which isn't always better, especially when you are in court...and that can go on forever.
Savvy means savory
White like ivory
Smoother than silk
Nurturing as milk

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Whatcha Lookin' At?

Every women I know wonders the very same question, yet not all women have the same reaction/mindset to that situation.
Why do men check out "other" women.
Short answer, they're not blind.
Men are visual.  Men check out women, as well as, all other things...yet, there are no issues regarding other things.
For example during a drive out to somewhere (mostly nowhere):
men will notice, 
The car that pulled over to change a tire
The kids playing alongside the street
The old couple waiting at the street corner
The flashing pedestrian light
The accumulating traffic heading the opposite direction
The clarity in the sky
The woman walking her dog
The pothole in the road
"Oh wait, why are you looking at that woman?"
What woman would be my first reaction....and now, you sound annoying even bringing it up.
Yeah, what about all the other things that I saw?
What about those things?!
Simple understanding, just because you look at something...does not mean you plan on giving it any more thought beyond that immediate glance.
Most times, it becomes a forgotten image within less than a minute.
Kinda like window shopping when you have no money.
Savvy?

Monday, April 23, 2018

Grim('s) Explanation on Tactics that Help Influence Public Opinion

These are the methods the “self-chosen” and their slaves (whomever you feel might fit that bill), employ when confronted by facts which they cannot handle and facts which they cannot afford to be unleashed on the public:
Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil
Regardless of what you know, don’t discuss it — especially if you are a public figure, news anchor, etc. If it’s not reported, it didn’t happen, and you never have to deal with the issues.
Become incredulous and indignant.
Avoid discussing key issues and instead focus on side issues which can be used show the topic as being critical of some otherwise sacrosanct group or theme. This is also known as the ‘How dare you!’ gambit.
Create rumor mongers.
Avoid discussing issues by describing all charges, regardless of venue or evidence, as mere rumors and wild accusations. Other derogatory terms mutually exclusive of truth may work as well. This method which works especially well with a silent press, because the only way the public can learn of the facts are through such ‘arguable rumors’.
If you can associate the material with the Internet, use this fact to certify it a ‘wild rumor’ from a ‘bunch of kids on the Internet’ which can have no basis in fact.
Use a straw man.
Find or create a seeming element of your opponent’s argument which you can easily knock down to make yourself look good and the opponent to look bad. Either make up an issue you may safely imply exists based on your interpretation of the opponent/opponent arguments/situation, or select the weakest aspect of the weakest charges.
Amplify their significance and destroy them in a way which appears to debunk all the charges, real and fabricated alike, while actually avoiding discussion of the real issues.
Sidetrack opponents with name calling and ridicule.
This is also known as the primary ‘attack the messenger’ ploy, though other methods qualify as variants of that approach.
Associate opponents with unpopular titles such as ‘kooks’, ‘right-wing’, ‘liberal’, ‘left-wing’, ‘terrorists’, ‘conspiracy buffs’, ‘radicals’, ‘militia’, ‘racists’, ‘religious fanatics’, ‘sexual deviates’, and so forth. This makes others shrink from support out of fear of gaining the same label, and you avoid dealing with issues.
Hit and Run.
In any public forum, make a brief attack of your opponent or the opponent position and then scamper off before an answer can be fielded, or simply ignore any answer.
This works extremely well in Internet and letters-to-the-editor environments where a steady stream of new identities can be called upon without having to explain criticism reasoning — simply make an accusation or other attack, never discussing issues, and never answering any subsequent response, for that would dignify the opponent’s viewpoint.
Question motives.
Twist or amplify any fact which could be taken to imply that the opponent operates out of a hidden personal agenda or other bias. This avoids discussing issues and forces the accuser on the defensive.
Invoke authority.
Claim for yourself or associate yourself with authority and present your argument with enough ‘jargon’ and ‘minutia’ to illustrate you are ‘one who knows’, and simply say it isn’t so without discussing issues or demonstrating concretely why or citing sources.
Play Dumb
No matter what evidence or logical argument is offered, avoid discussing issues except with denials they have any credibility, make any sense, provide any proof, contain or make a point, have logic, or support a conclusion. Mix well for maximum effect.
Associate opponent charges with old news
A derivative of the straw man — usually, in any large-scale matter of high visibility, someone will make charges early on which can be or were already easily dealt with – a kind of investment for the future should the matter not be so easily contained.) Where it can be foreseen, have your own side raise a straw man issue and have it dealt with early on as part of the initial contingency plans.
Subsequent charges, regardless of validity or new ground uncovered, can usually then be associated with the original charge and dismissed as simply being a rehash without need to address current issues — so much the better where the opponent is or was involved with the original source.
Establish and rely upon fall-back positions.
Using a minor matter or element of the facts, take the ‘high road’ and ‘confess’ with candor that some innocent mistake, in hindsight, was made — but that opponents have seized on the opportunity to blow it all out of proportion and imply greater criminalities which, ‘just isn’t so.’
Others can reinforce this on your behalf, later, and even publicly ‘call for an end to the nonsense’ because you have already ‘done the right thing.’ Done properly, this can garner sympathy and respect for ‘coming clean’ and ‘owning up’ to your mistakes without addressing more serious issues.
Enigmas have no solution.
Drawing upon the overall umbrella of events surrounding the crime and the multitude of players and events, paint the entire affair as too complex to solve. This causes those otherwise following the matter to begin to loose interest more quickly without having to address the actual issues.
Alice in Wonderland Logic
Avoid discussion of the issues by reasoning backwards or with an apparent deductive logic which forbears any actual material fact.
Demand complete solutions
Avoid the issues by requiring opponents to solve the crime at hand completely, a ploy which works best with issues qualifying for rule 10.
Fit the facts to alternate conclusions
This requires creative thinking unless the crime was planned with contingency conclusions in place.
Razzle the Dazzle
Use pretentious phrasing to say things that can be said with half the syllables.The passive voice is especially effective.

***That is just a taste to show you and all the readers that I am far from just blowing smoke. I, we, know all this and much, much, more.

Monday, April 16, 2018

price for Freedumb

We are a prisoner of ego, our own worst victim.  Confined to live by the rules of a one sided external prospective that offers no understanding, nor any compassion.

Let me tell you about the story of the Man, his Son and their Donkey.

A  MAN and his Son were once driving their Donkey along a country road, to sell him at the fair. They soon passed some girls, who were drawing water at a well.
"Look," said one of the girls; "see those silly people trudging along in the dust, while their Donkey walks at his ease."

The Man heard what they said, and put his boy on the Donkey’s back.

They had not gone far before they came to some old men.
"See here, now," said one of them to the others, "this shows that what I said is true. Nowadays the young take no care of the old. See this boy riding while his poor old father has to walk by his side."

Hearing this, the Man told his Son to get down, and he mounted the Donkey himself.

In a little while they met three women with children in their arms.
"For shame!" said the women. "How can you let that poor boy walk when he looks so tired, and you ride like a king?"

The Man then took the boy up behind him on the saddle, and they rode on to the town.

Just before they got there, some young men stopped them and said:
"Is that Donkey yours?" "Yes," said the Man. "One would not think so," said they, "by the way you load him. You look more fit to carry him than he to carry you."

So the Man and the boy got off, tied the Donkey’s legs with a rope, fastened him to a pole, and, each taking one end of the pole, carried him along, while everyone they met laughed outright.

By and by they came to a bridge. Then the Donkey began to kick, and breaking the rope, fell into the water and was drowned.  The old Man and his Son made their way home as best they could, thinking to themselves, "When we try to please everybody, we please nobody."

Once we stop caring what others say and think, we truly emancipate ourselves from our own confinement...our captor....our own Ego.

Wednesday, April 11, 2018

You Won't Know Until You Find Out

Help!  My Wife thinks that we are going through a divorce...
Oh, no....it's far more severe than that my darling little KuKu...you're going through menopause.
Oh dear, it gets worse.   It can last for up to fifteen more years.
Wow...
That's like possibly another three or four presidents.  That's a long time, and lulu does luv a long time...to be miserable and crazy.
Menopause truly affects all women differently, hence no two women are equally or predictably affected.  So, it's no given things can go haywire.  For those that coast through it...you lucky ducks!
All men who are around middle aged women know firsthand how quickly and intensely things can and will spiral out of hormonal control.
It's analogous to being shipwrecked on a volcanic island with a tsunami heading right for you.
It's kinda like that except the menopause thing is really happening and no theoretical situation can take you out of it.
Yeah, doesn't that sound great.
Well...the best advice I can give to all shipwrecked sailors is that it's not personal...you just got caught at the wrong place at the wrong time.  As a matter of fact, if it weren't you it would be somebody else.
In due time, all this will come to pass and all marooned Mariners eventually find their way to the mainland.  It took Tom Hanks over four years with Wilson to find his way back home.  If he can do it, so can we.
It's a matter of learning to go with the flow, otherwise the rough waters will swallow up any and all lost and confused seafarers.
Learn the currents, pay attention to the winds.  Look skyward.
Red sky in the morning, sailors take Warning.
Red sky at night, sailors delight.
With all said, let's not all forget how the other side might feel.  Compassion and empathy for the hectic frenzy of the unreasonable chaos brought on by that nasty endagenous chemical transformation.

The really good news is, once it's over....it's over! Thanks God.
FYI, Sigmund Freud prescribed hysterectomies for menopausal women in order to help them cope with their hysteria.  Just saying...
Anyhow,
The craziest part of all this, I'm not even married.
Phew!

For your further enjoyment.
Men's Guide to Menopause posted by AARP

https://www.aarp.org/relationships/love-sex/info-09-2010/naked_truth_men_guide_to_menopause.html

and
10 Tibits that you May Not Know About Menopause
https://www.prevention.com/health/surprising-menopause-symptoms