Final Percolations

It is Beyond liberating to find a path that you've unrelentingly sought...tenaciously fighting merciless challenges and unforgiving obstacles...seemingly feeling as if probability favors failure...to fail only means to try again...and again...and once again...until there is success, to be enjoyed...Experienced!!!
Words Like Never...only make me think When and How...Where? How about Now! As in the Here and Now. I know, really know...the harder I work, the luckier I get...luck favors the prepared! Having cracked my crystal ball, I only have speculation to make my predictions by...I predict...that half the battle was fought...but the remainder is yet to be determined...Destiny resides within hand...so grab, clutch...choke if you must...but seek what you want, and work hard to do so...life's gifts are rarely given without a struggle!

With A Woman like this...

A Hurricane...
I can either CHOOSE to move WITH her
Or
Stay and get CRUSHED!!!

If a Genie were to Grant Just ONE wish

A Simple, Fantastical thought...Dream...?
What would your wish be?

Mine, would be about me...not of someone else, well not exactly about someone else...its not my business to command or control someone else fate...just my very Own, therefore...
I wish to never be in a position whereby my conscious willful words or actions lead too any emotional (or physical) grievance by someone I know or care for...
Shouldn't that be everyones wish?
Am I selfish to think this way?

MeloDramatic Appetites

Couples who Allow each other to naturally grow into their elemental and instinctual state of existence...are the couples with the best chance of growing together and staying together as time passes the world.

As 2TwoGrowIntoOne1
Herein lies the fundamental Heart...fueling...feeding..Oozing with Heat for true Passion...the Igniter to this everlasting Fire...a Desire so strong...impervious to the stress and challenges of any relationship lifecycle...all coming at the heals of this unrelenting devotion that exists with a faithful lust and loyal Eros...

No relationship can sustain fruitless passion...therefore
Find who you are and be able to share that...
indefinitely and unconditionally

Its Been an Interesting Year

Three Hundred and Sixty Five Nights ago...in the midst of a turbulent monsoon-like downpour, I sat down with Matt Jensen..."my" IT guy...and he helped assemble this blog. He told me to have fun, and off I ran with it. Just a little background information on me...texting was a forgein language to me up until seventeen months ago (I am still internet deprived...and fully satisfied by it)...so without Matt, my quest to share the human dynamic may have been a very quiet untold story.
It has not been an epic memoir...nothing extravagant or magnificent...yet with that said, each day brought another gift...every gift happens to be special in its own unique way. Reminiscing over what has come and gone...this much is true. When one opportunity dies, another often reveals itself...its up to the beholder's eye to notice. I am plagued with eyes too sensitive not to notice. In my line of life...I meet people, some days many people...seemingly everyday. Some by chance...others through coerced destiny. Some people take to me and I to them...While others may find me a bit brass, or too intense (how can a quiet guy be too intense?)...perhaps too aggressive or even outright crazy (creativity often gets accused of insanity!). On my end, I don't judge...ever. Its not in my DNA. Along with not being judgmental, I hold no prejudice...of any sort...to anybody. Everyone is always on equal ground with me...its just how it is. You can either accept me for it or ignore me or it...its always up to you...FREE WILL, use it. People are funny, they all seem to think the Sun rises around their schedule...and the Moon should follow suit! Its that attitude of...How inconvenient of anyone to defy "my schedule"...got to love that mentality. Let me be honest, not everyone is in complete violation...but we all have "OUR" days...where its "Us verses the World". After all it is Human Nature...i never take offense to any it. The only way I truly feel offense, is when I get the sense someone is viably attempting to inflict some sort of pain...Why? Because that is how some people know how to deal with their environment.
What has the last year shown? There are many types of people, with varied personalities...and we are all here together...making the same trip...so lets be good to each other and make this a better journey.
This has been all of our Testimonies...over the course of one calendar year!

Tell Me I Can't

And I'll show How I WILL

Lesson Number #62 Sixty-Two

Never...and I mean never attempt to argue with an Idiot.
For,
They always bring you down to their Level...
and then beat you with their experience.

Its Never worth Your aggravation...as the French Say
"Ce Domage"


P.S. Confucius (May he rest in peace)...once told us all
Plan your revenge, but be prepared to dig two graves!

How difficult is it to take less...when there's plenty MORE on the table to have?

Without doubt it can and/or will take months for any given individual personality to uncloak itself from behind the walls they my have created...again it is all based upon specifics of each individual. Some people can easily emerge and truly introduce themselves...while others need much more time to materialize from their hibernative/incubative state of existence...revealing who their true being is.
A Major reason why people remain guarded....fear of rejection. In other words, this is a defense mechanism geared around gaining acceptance. Perhaps the curtain will raise when the individual feels as if they have been accepted? That does make sense, yes...for those that don't focus on seeking approval, they often seem to say and do as they please...regardless how anyone else may feel...without the risk of a conscientious consequence. How delicious is that road!

I Have noticed that so many seek from the outside...Extrinsic Elements of satisfaction...
Experiencing True Love can best be explained when you have two separate individuals/interests that Know how to Protect, T O U C H, affirm and Greet each other without expecting anything in return...
You need to love yourself first before you're able to love another...
Never doubt yourself, Self Love confirms Self Worth!!!
Why is it so common that self love is lost with so many?
How can we experience Self Love?
Do we need to feel being Loved in order to understand Self Love?

No relationship is without growth...
hence the challenges...
First we grow intrinsically
then
We Help EACH other GROW

P.S. Is this confusion due to so many who are looking to be loved as opposed to being able to love...?

My Deepest Condolences

To friend and professional affiliate Barbara. Her Son Zachary drowned while surfing the waters off of the south shore of Long Island On the Eighth of September. Zachary, may you find the happiness, peace and adventure you sought in life.

In my opinion, two of the hardest challenges life will present each of us is the Loss of a parent and spouse...even harder, is losing a child. I can not imagine the depth of her heartache. My prayers go out to you Barbara...this mending of your heart is impossible, rather find the strength to cope to the best of your abilities. You will always have my heartfelt nurtured counsel and my entire professional staff's support and encouragement. May You and Everyone else always be blessed.
And remember, life is never fair, rarely forgiving
and always riddled with tests!
Not my rules, but we are all stuck in this game.

Posi+ivi+y

"...Cut not the Wings of your Dreams...for they are the Heartbeat and Freedom of your Soul..."

Pumpkin and the Commander clearly state...let your individuality rule your heart the way its meant to beat
Speaking of which was brought to my attention early this morning...This Blog is the number One Google hit for the search...
Godzilla Footsie
My December 26th entry on accepting others and their individualistic qualities!
So rightly named
Godzilla and the Pink Footsie Pajamas


P.S. For those that are unaware...today is talk like a Pirate Day!

"Shiver me Timbers"

Liberty in Tranquility

If WE have NO peace...then we forgot that WE all belong to each other
-thoughts from a saint, Her Name was Teressa


My SEVEN rules Of Self Respect in how I Deal With People
I have made a commitment to be true to MYself and MY values...what, who is important to me? I recognize this and I do what I can to honor it.
I know and appreciate who I am, what I can Offer...never critical of my short comings, and I always look for feedback...therein lies the nutrients of growth.
I Understand what is valuable to me...leave people in a better position from where I found them...I can't always do that though, if others refuse my extended hand at all costs. Its up to me to recognize others are just not ready to be helped by my hand!
As uncomfortable as it may be...telling truths has the shortest route.
I am always willing to change and grow...its called learning and evolving...everyone should embrace this for the purpose of progression.
Compassion. Forgive myself and others...I try my best not to blame myself or others. Easier said then done!
My final rule...I embrace my uniqueness...I am bold, courageous, spontaneous and creative! And I love it.

P.S.
More Bombs leads to Less Peace
and always remember that...
Mistakes are...
ALWAYS Forgivable
Rarely Excusable
Never Acceptable

Warm Your Heart, Cool the Sting
Its the Virtue of the Brave
It thrives on Faith
(always reviving)
it saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred and waste of spirit
in my humble opinion
An Open Mind with a Compassionate Heart will lead best down a Galvanized path...the fairway of life


"It is the nature of the wise to resist the pitfalls of pleasure, yet the foolish become enslaved by them"....Epictetus

Courage is

Not the Absence of Fear
but rather
the STRENGTH to Overcome it

I've been Called Many, many Things

By various people
in regards to all my actions
throughout life

Some are positive
others
Not Very

Some people admire
while,
others may seethe...
tragically bounded to a disrupted
starless midnight of conflict

I'll tell you this much about who I am...

I am more, much more
then a Pacifist
call me a Militant Pacifist
Because I believe in fighting for my peace
...as a matter of fact
I fight for all that I believe in
why shouldn't I?
Everyone Should!
No one will achieve what they want
if they don't fight for it

I would rather experience One act of substance
then hear of...one thousand hollow promises

Peace comes from within,
not from without...
therein lies true self success...


P.S.
Never Overate, envy or resentment
unarmed truth and unconditional love
will have their final say

Take Away the Worry

Then the Ride
becomes
Very Simple to Enjoy


Our acts, actions...choice in our activities
No matter how habitual, compulsive/impulsive
or even necessary
we may perceive their relevance
We still elect to do them
Just as easily
We can consciously choose not to do them
Free Will
is the Ultimate Gift to Humanity


P.S. Group Hug Anyone?
Shirley's finest
32 year old Ms Daphne Melin certainly might need one,
she incited two twelve year old school girls
into an after school fight, on school grounds?!
Ms Melin then proceeded to assault a third girl who voiced her opinion to terminate the dispute. Ms Melin kicked, kneed and spit on this little twelve year old girl who only wanted to see and end to the ongoing quarrel.
The Judge is planning on seeing Ms Melin in December
= ) have a nice day Ms Melin

WOOPS, didn't mean it...Ms Mary Purcell of Lake Ronkonkoma....so frightened that her mother and brother were flying from Tuscon, Arizona to Long Island, New York around the anniversary of 9/11...that she decided to call the Arizona airport they were departing from and fabricated a threat of destruction. She has since admitted to the threat, seen a magistrate and ordered to return to court, as well as, mandated to be randomly drug tested and to continue her "mental health" therapy...

Inner Calmness on the heals of Harvest Moon

True Happiness has less to do with your rate of progression and more to do with how kind you are to yourself along the way!!!! The Absolute best way to help yourself is to stop fighting yourself

At Nine927TwentySeven P.M. Last Night

The Harvest Moon is the Full Moon closest to the Autumnal equinox...often mistaken for the Hunter's Moon...with her reddish tint and full figure she glowed through our evening sky...so peaceful, so elegant, with so much grace and beauty...absolutely breathtaking! Barely hovering over the night time darkened skyline...like a Gypsy teasing my logic and reason with her lovely comeliness...


Accepting and acknowledging other peoples thoughts and feelings irrelevant of how you feel or perceive a given situation is a far more difficult task when there is a varied opinion separating the two divided parties...its almost best at that point to offer peace in the face of conflict...even when innocence provoked the dispute, when intentions were not derived from a malicious heart that have lead to the floods of offended emotions and hurt sentiments.

Marianne once Told me that
Forgiving is not always easy
especially when
Forgiving feels More painful
then the wound suffered from the infliction
Yet
There will never be peace without Forgiveness

Everyone
Be Good, Be Well, Be Healthy and may you all be Blessed

Good Morning on This Monday Morning

On 09/11/11 at 11:23 P.M. the Seventh7000Thousand Individual stopped by to look into what you all have already read...lets continue to all grow for the better!

Let Me be the F1RST to Go On Record

Whether I am or, am not...I don't really know, Nonetheless let me share my thoughts on this September Eleventh11th. Ten years ago today Over three3000thousand People of all ethnicities, cultures and religions died in Manhattan, Shanksville PA and Washington DC. Most of them woke up that morning not realizing that they would be apart of human history...their event has affected world history (perhaps for the worst). That day, ten years ago was much like today. Mild, comfortable and sunny weather...climactically peaceful...yet emotionally vengeful and highly volatile (its intensity will not be determined for decades to come). I can not apologize for the world, I can only do my part and follow good morals...abstain from negativity...and invoke goodness...to share with the world. If enough people share these principles, just perhaps...Life could be filled with Love. People who Hurt Others lack Love. People who wish negativity lack Love. There is enough goodness to go around, its up to us to put it out there. Prayers to all who are affected by today...
Be Good, be well, be healthy and be blessed
-your Author Patrick

Now my point for my entry...I will go on record today and state what I have not already heard...by anyone!
On December 21, 2012 the World will not end...unless of course we blow ourselves up...which is very possible...we can be very dumb and unreasonable as a species!
The Mayans were master Astrologists...to Savant Levels. What their calendar declares is a cyclical completion of astrological observation. Much like watching the cycle of the moon repeat itself...their calendar marks the complete cycle of where these astral bodies (all visible ones) take.
On that winter solstice, the world is not ending or drastically changing....however we all will evolve by then and continue to do so...change in that respect is inevitable. That is why I never understood why people fight change. Its probably fear of the unknown. "Will I like the Change" "Will I be safe with Change" Its natural to wonder of what the road ahead brings us...why fight that Journey?
If I have this Blog up in running Next December...it is a BIG IF...you will hear from me on December 22nd of the year 2012

I need a Translation

Zigeuners ?
Duits ?
Engels ?
bosna ?

wtf do these words mean?why am i asking?

Communcation is such a key component.  Understanding is the first step in this connection...make an effort to understand!  Zigeuners?

Life's greatest Satisfactions include...chocolat, last laughs and final words!

The summer of Twenty2011Eleven is officially in the panels of History...did expectations collide with reality?  Certain realities are mere mirages of elusive destinations centered around unattainable goals.  Many fall victim in this abyss...eventually spiraling in a self loathing state of pity...as I stated, victims by their own words and thoughts...imprisoned by your minds.
It takes Inner Strength...
Personal Discipline...
Untethered...
Desire...
Driven for Success...
It takes vision and understanding of all necessary sacrifices need to be made in order to Achieve that Satisifaction...execute with an undoubted mind in Perfection...
Lose your doubts and fears...
Conquer...Triump...Conquest
The words for the fall of 20Twenty-Eleven11

Remember that Love looks through a Telescope
Envy Through a microscope

Nothing is more Satisfying then making the Final Installment!!!

P.S. Happy Birthday Kathryn

Tonight Marks

The One Year Anniversary of the Inception for this Blog.
It was A Year Ago tonight, Joe and I (aka Patrick Benson) sat at the Port Side Pub down in the Incorporated Village of Port Jefferson. Sharing drinks and stories about the our lives over the previous decade...that was the time span in which Joe and I missed experiencing life through the same social circle. I was off being Anti-social and figuring out difficult Social Human Biological Behavioral Patterns, challenging the validity of interesting Physics equations, or testing the authenticity of some calculus theorem and some how attempt to delineate and explain or apply it to modern day "humanity" issues (as well as, charting the Earth for some of its Best wines...hard to pick between Barbresco, Barolo, or Burgundy...my true Killer BBB's).  Mean while, Joe was busy starting the typical American Life with a wife and two dogs. She, has since left to go off with a not so liked fellow, I got bored and annoyed being some sort of recluse savant...we met down at Port Side and after listening to Joe's adventures I asked him if he would allow me to initiate this Blog using him as a case study for it...since then, the rest has been documented right before your mind's eye...read and enjoy...
Three Hundred and Sixty Five Days
One Hundred new people and their stories
Shared with over Sixty Eight Hundred readers in Forty Nine Countries and Territories on our Mother Planet...
So
What will this next year bring me?
Bring Us?
All of Us?
Will this Be a year filled with Good Fortune and Joy?

People Who Give Up...rarely understand the feeling of Success

Majestic feats come to blows through depths of strength (inner and outer), engineered via a backbone of testosterone...lifting and heaving stale weight from the Days of Christmas Past.  There is an endearing and invigorating quality that comes at the heals of physical dominance and success...oozing of primal masculinity...Conquering a challenge is instinctively satisfying!  Pounding my chest in Victory, not only makes me seem evolutionarily challenged, yet defines my genetic make-up...no question of my DNA...I'll growl my way right to my goal.  Snarl!  Persist and persevere.  Feel and endear what it feels to finish what you start...sometimes, most times, opportunities only come once.

The Right

Place
at

The Best Time

just finish the Job
Once and for all

The Best Things in Life Begin with...

Love talked about can be easily turned aside, but love demonstrated is irresistible
- W Stanley Mooneyham (who is this guy?)...I always say that actions mean more then words...always, about anything...one major reason why i never rely on phone calls to complete any missions of life...

Antoine de Saint-Exupery says that Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the Same Direction! she's got divorce Lawyer written all over her...don't you think...whats hers is his, and vice versa...so share equally when done, yes?

Guess what? Love is a Game, that two will play...and both can win, as can one or none...why must everything in life be a Game? Nothing is ever fair in Love and War, right?

My favorite William
as in Shakespeare
from
A Midsummer Night's Dream
remember that play
from Eight8thGrade English
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind...therefore is wing'd Cupid Painted Blind"
How wretched of him to say???

Where's the rattle coming from?

What an odd way to end the Summer of 2011, as we approach Labor Day weekend. In a few more weeks the leaves will turn orange and brown and slowly wittle down to shriveled remnants of their old selves...just another cyclical phase of life. One end brings a new beginning...nothing in life is permanent, even reputations can change with the right effort and exposure.
Reading over the news stories, each one seems dumber then the next. Take Steven Seagal. He has some ridiculous reality show where he "spearheads" police raids. Armed in a military tank, he invaded (along with a swat team) a man's Hen farm. In the mayhem during this siege...authorities managed to kill off a large majority of this mans livestock, as well as, his eleven month old puppy. This was all caught on tape, and to no surprise, everyone involved is going to be sued. Another bizarre, why did this even make any sort of international news story, an English man by the name of Benedict (such an official name) Garrett was rehired for his teacher apprentice type of Middle School work. He was originally fired when A student saw an adult film trailer starring this teacher. Mr Garrett also is in the "home entertainment" business...he'll dress up like a fireman and police officer for you (only if you like), amongst other things. Why is this story even in the news? The only redeeming story I read today was the deaf guy regaining his hearing from the 5.8 earthquake down in Virginia...call me biased, tell me I have Tunnel Vision...I'm just going to scope myself out an earthquake!


By The Way (abbreviated btw...so nonchalant)
If you Don't Stand for Something,
you will surely fall for anything...
sorry

Fulfillment is

The Result of Connecting
to the Source of Love
in the
Present Moment


"When I Admire the Wonder of a Sunset...
or the Beauty of the Moon...
my Soul Expands
in Worship
of the
Creator"
- Mahatma Gandi