Sunday, August 26, 2018

Do you have a Soul, or are you a spirit imitating someone with a Soul?

Energy can not be created or destroyed
Only transferred
Or so they say
I have a conscious
I have a perceived reality therefore I do exist as energy
If you want to refer to my soul as energy, so be it
Because I am here, I am real
I have thought, I have the ability to initiate actions
I can reason, I can solve, I can explain
I have feelings, I have emotions
I experience a world filled with consequences and circumstances
There is no imitating or pretending, I perceive my energy bounded by my flesh therefore I am energized flesh
The soil beneath my feet, the air that animates my blood...
I experience it, I feel it...I live it

I am me

Saturday, August 25, 2018

Sweet Love

Cool and calculating
Soft, yet delicate
Precise
Like a quiet slice
Calming
Finding peace
Opening my soul
Exposing my essence
Creating my solace
Sharing with the world
What I hold to myself
I
am
One
with
my
Red
I die bye my sword
Because
that is where my piece finds me

Time
ceases to exist 
when we embrace
As if 
my 
d i v i d e d 
soul 
once again 
becomes 
whole
In a world
that is constantly
c h a n g i n g
It's where
I found my peace
When we became one
And in its infinite oceans of eternity
It all came to a halt
As we merged into us

She
Is
Water

Friday, August 10, 2018

Love Letters to Kristin

Once Upon A Time, in my immediate future I got the News...the Really big news that I have a destiny to fulfill in Nepal.

Funny story on how I am being beckoned to go to Nepal.  The eldest sister Neo (she's like a humble version of the superhero from The Matrix) ran into a psychic she knows while she was out and about in a market place.  The psychic (they always correct me by saying that it's their spiritual adviser) told her that she needs to get to Nepal ASAP.
Now, here is a little backstory on my lady friend and her entire family....they are a bunch of germaphobe hypochondriacs who have sworn off ever going to India or any immediate neighboring countries.
Neo's immediate response was,
"But I had wanted to go to germany?"
Her psychic told her "No, you're going to Nepal....first...and then at some later time you can visit Germany."
So, it's been told therefore she will adhere to the Devine voice of her conduit...Nepal it is!

Here is where I come in (and don't you worry I will be going....and I am the only person who is looking forward to whatever chaos....god I love that word...comes our way).  I had a sit down with the sisters this past weekend and I quickly came to the realization that they have no clue where they are going nor do they have any idea of what to do once when they get there.  I don't even think that lady Mei Lay could point to Nepal on a Map...or a globe...maybe with a little GPS with a tad bit of sass.

I take a deep breathe and I start walking them through from their first step here in the New York up to the initial destination of Lumbini, Nepal. (There looks to be a strong potential for subsequent destinations that hold religious significance.
I should mention that they are devout Buddhists and they are doing this on the premise that it will be a pilgrimage...in hopes of spiritually elevating their samsara.
Personally, I am not religious....but I do have a strong sense of curiosity to fabrics of all religious observations (you can throw in Myths, superstitions and folklores).  I have always considered myself spiritually connected to the ways of humanity and the dimension it exists in.

I am leaning towards endorsing they consider some sort of small tour group that focuses on retracing Buddha's steps.  It would be a bit more adventurous if I plan out some kind of personalized  set of destinations...but having to travel with them under time constraints, there is no room for error.  Getting lost or ill is not on the to do list...as fun as that may be on the other side of the world.
Don't forget, I do root for chaos!
After Thinking this through, they are going to need a solid sense of direction and purpose....otherwise, they just might get lost in a maniac mesh of mayhem.

Ce Domage as the French tend to say.

Au Revoir and Viva Nepal

Yours Truly,
Dean-OH
Bobo
ChaCha

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Mission Towards Light

My voice may have gone virtually silent, but I assure you that I have not been inhibited in sharing my thoughts, opinions and whatever pseudo-wisdom I may believe to be inherent to my being.  In other words, spoken word has been my choice of communication with my select audience.  I do apologize for not sharing all that I have shared during this time.
With that said, lets dip into the delicious avenues of requisite insight that could potentially pave a path to enlightenment...being that I am being beckon to a birth place of sapience.
First off, fire within creates the light for the vision necessary to see beyond the immediate me.  The immediate me is predominately fed by ego.  Light will never come from anything beyond the me.  If light does appear from anywhere other than the me...well, that is not true light...that is more of a hungry mind looking for a world and only finding shadows created by a false sense of creadance.
Second, owning it does not mean you know how to harness it.
It being the fire that lights.
Learning what to do with it, might be just as difficult as knowing where to find it.
Wait,
I'm confused.
Aren't we all?
Yes, sorting through the confusion is a big part of the journey.  Confusion creates wayward paths.  Wayward paths make circles much how dogs chase tails.
Why so much confusion?
Because the Ego is a house of pride (with prejudice), in the midst of an angry storm intent on fighting the primal world for eternal survival.  With pride comes vice, skewing direction and orientation. Hence, how so many can and will lose their way.
I call them distractions.  Emotions that illicit precise reactions that cause one to deviate off their path.
By...the...way...not all paths lead to the same destination.
Distractions can be things that motivate us to sit still on our path.
Distractions are behaviors that wreak havoc in our our path and strangle us with chaos.
How, do I love...love...love...do we all...love our chaos.
Chaos creates the natural order.
Funny, how chaos has order.
And it's an order of destruction.
Don't forget, we all came from chaos.
I find only those ready to look for fire can find fire if they eliminate distractions and resist falling victim to their Ego.  Ego is what separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom.  The world around us has instinct for survival instead of ego.  If they create an ego, it might put them on a fast track to extinction.
Oh my, the othe E word.
Ego and Extinction are two in one...because without one, you will not get the other.

May I make one final point?

Everything in life is overrated, except life itself which is often taken for granted.

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Self Love

Oysters are the gem guardians of our planet.  A rigid shell shields its treasures from the Wolful appetite of an unforgiving global quest for all exotic beauties.
Anything in its path gets consumed solely for pleasure, vanity and ego.
The pitfall of superficial transparency.
A unique luster that's contingent upon reflection, refraction and diffraction of light via all its translucent layers.
The thinner and more numerous the layers, the finer the luster...creating an iridescence emitted from all these concentric layers that break up light on its smooth and silky surface.
Rare and extradinairy color patters are singular to each Pearl...exuding an all inclusive individualistic beauty.

In this paradox we call life,
Fixing old problems may not be as good as starting over in order to Find the right way.
Focus on what we can control by using our positive attitude, strong faith and mindful perspective.
Remember....We choose how we perceive each and every situation that comes our way...

After all,
An oyster that was not injured will never produce a pearl...because a Pearl is a wound that has healed.
Beautiful and individualistic.

Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Fairy Tail Endings

Don't get angry, it's not worth the emotional expenditure...plus, anger is a counter productive emotion!  No one, except anger benefits from anger.
Instead, 
I say get even while entertaining yourself...
Wouldn't it be funny, since you were right there front and center, if you tapped the woman on the shoulder and asked her "are you single?  Cause my boyfriend finds you hot, and he's even sucking his belly for you."
I wonder how all that would go from there.
Inquiring minds want to know. Oh, Wow...wow.
Who dat?
Best case scenario, you guys get a sugar momma!
Worst case scenario, everyone gets embarrassed and you prove your point of how you're not cool with certain things...considering that you were right there.
Doing that in a more private setting, well...then...ignorance is bliss.
Like a toad and the kiss...
Transforming him into a prince!
That's the difference between tadpoles and turtles.
Turtles live so much longer.
Which isn't always better, especially when you are in court...and that can go on forever.
Savvy means savory
White like ivory
Smoother than silk
Nurturing as milk

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Whatcha Lookin' At?

Every women I know wonders the very same question, yet not all women have the same reaction/mindset to that situation.
Why do men check out "other" women.
Short answer, they're not blind.
Men are visual.  Men check out women, as well as, all other things...yet, there are no issues regarding other things.
For example during a drive out to somewhere (mostly nowhere):
men will notice, 
The car that pulled over to change a tire
The kids playing alongside the street
The old couple waiting at the street corner
The flashing pedestrian light
The accumulating traffic heading the opposite direction
The clarity in the sky
The woman walking her dog
The pothole in the road
"Oh wait, why are you looking at that woman?"
What woman would be my first reaction....and now, you sound annoying even bringing it up.
Yeah, what about all the other things that I saw?
What about those things?!
Simple understanding, just because you look at something...does not mean you plan on giving it any more thought beyond that immediate glance.
Most times, it becomes a forgotten image within less than a minute.
Kinda like window shopping when you have no money.
Savvy?

Monday, April 23, 2018

Grim('s) Explanation on Tactics that Help Influence Public Opinion

These are the methods the “self-chosen” and their slaves (whomever you feel might fit that bill), employ when confronted by facts which they cannot handle and facts which they cannot afford to be unleashed on the public:
Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil
Regardless of what you know, don’t discuss it — especially if you are a public figure, news anchor, etc. If it’s not reported, it didn’t happen, and you never have to deal with the issues.
Become incredulous and indignant.
Avoid discussing key issues and instead focus on side issues which can be used show the topic as being critical of some otherwise sacrosanct group or theme. This is also known as the ‘How dare you!’ gambit.
Create rumor mongers.
Avoid discussing issues by describing all charges, regardless of venue or evidence, as mere rumors and wild accusations. Other derogatory terms mutually exclusive of truth may work as well. This method which works especially well with a silent press, because the only way the public can learn of the facts are through such ‘arguable rumors’.
If you can associate the material with the Internet, use this fact to certify it a ‘wild rumor’ from a ‘bunch of kids on the Internet’ which can have no basis in fact.
Use a straw man.
Find or create a seeming element of your opponent’s argument which you can easily knock down to make yourself look good and the opponent to look bad. Either make up an issue you may safely imply exists based on your interpretation of the opponent/opponent arguments/situation, or select the weakest aspect of the weakest charges.
Amplify their significance and destroy them in a way which appears to debunk all the charges, real and fabricated alike, while actually avoiding discussion of the real issues.
Sidetrack opponents with name calling and ridicule.
This is also known as the primary ‘attack the messenger’ ploy, though other methods qualify as variants of that approach.
Associate opponents with unpopular titles such as ‘kooks’, ‘right-wing’, ‘liberal’, ‘left-wing’, ‘terrorists’, ‘conspiracy buffs’, ‘radicals’, ‘militia’, ‘racists’, ‘religious fanatics’, ‘sexual deviates’, and so forth. This makes others shrink from support out of fear of gaining the same label, and you avoid dealing with issues.
Hit and Run.
In any public forum, make a brief attack of your opponent or the opponent position and then scamper off before an answer can be fielded, or simply ignore any answer.
This works extremely well in Internet and letters-to-the-editor environments where a steady stream of new identities can be called upon without having to explain criticism reasoning — simply make an accusation or other attack, never discussing issues, and never answering any subsequent response, for that would dignify the opponent’s viewpoint.
Question motives.
Twist or amplify any fact which could be taken to imply that the opponent operates out of a hidden personal agenda or other bias. This avoids discussing issues and forces the accuser on the defensive.
Invoke authority.
Claim for yourself or associate yourself with authority and present your argument with enough ‘jargon’ and ‘minutia’ to illustrate you are ‘one who knows’, and simply say it isn’t so without discussing issues or demonstrating concretely why or citing sources.
Play Dumb
No matter what evidence or logical argument is offered, avoid discussing issues except with denials they have any credibility, make any sense, provide any proof, contain or make a point, have logic, or support a conclusion. Mix well for maximum effect.
Associate opponent charges with old news
A derivative of the straw man — usually, in any large-scale matter of high visibility, someone will make charges early on which can be or were already easily dealt with – a kind of investment for the future should the matter not be so easily contained.) Where it can be foreseen, have your own side raise a straw man issue and have it dealt with early on as part of the initial contingency plans.
Subsequent charges, regardless of validity or new ground uncovered, can usually then be associated with the original charge and dismissed as simply being a rehash without need to address current issues — so much the better where the opponent is or was involved with the original source.
Establish and rely upon fall-back positions.
Using a minor matter or element of the facts, take the ‘high road’ and ‘confess’ with candor that some innocent mistake, in hindsight, was made — but that opponents have seized on the opportunity to blow it all out of proportion and imply greater criminalities which, ‘just isn’t so.’
Others can reinforce this on your behalf, later, and even publicly ‘call for an end to the nonsense’ because you have already ‘done the right thing.’ Done properly, this can garner sympathy and respect for ‘coming clean’ and ‘owning up’ to your mistakes without addressing more serious issues.
Enigmas have no solution.
Drawing upon the overall umbrella of events surrounding the crime and the multitude of players and events, paint the entire affair as too complex to solve. This causes those otherwise following the matter to begin to loose interest more quickly without having to address the actual issues.
Alice in Wonderland Logic
Avoid discussion of the issues by reasoning backwards or with an apparent deductive logic which forbears any actual material fact.
Demand complete solutions
Avoid the issues by requiring opponents to solve the crime at hand completely, a ploy which works best with issues qualifying for rule 10.
Fit the facts to alternate conclusions
This requires creative thinking unless the crime was planned with contingency conclusions in place.
Razzle the Dazzle
Use pretentious phrasing to say things that can be said with half the syllables.The passive voice is especially effective.

***That is just a taste to show you and all the readers that I am far from just blowing smoke. I, we, know all this and much, much, more.

Monday, April 16, 2018

price for Freedumb

We are a prisoner of ego, our own worst victim.  Confined to live by the rules of a one sided external prospective that offers no understanding, nor any compassion.

Let me tell you about the story of the Man, his Son and their Donkey.

A  MAN and his Son were once driving their Donkey along a country road, to sell him at the fair. They soon passed some girls, who were drawing water at a well.
"Look," said one of the girls; "see those silly people trudging along in the dust, while their Donkey walks at his ease."

The Man heard what they said, and put his boy on the Donkey’s back.

They had not gone far before they came to some old men.
"See here, now," said one of them to the others, "this shows that what I said is true. Nowadays the young take no care of the old. See this boy riding while his poor old father has to walk by his side."

Hearing this, the Man told his Son to get down, and he mounted the Donkey himself.

In a little while they met three women with children in their arms.
"For shame!" said the women. "How can you let that poor boy walk when he looks so tired, and you ride like a king?"

The Man then took the boy up behind him on the saddle, and they rode on to the town.

Just before they got there, some young men stopped them and said:
"Is that Donkey yours?" "Yes," said the Man. "One would not think so," said they, "by the way you load him. You look more fit to carry him than he to carry you."

So the Man and the boy got off, tied the Donkey’s legs with a rope, fastened him to a pole, and, each taking one end of the pole, carried him along, while everyone they met laughed outright.

By and by they came to a bridge. Then the Donkey began to kick, and breaking the rope, fell into the water and was drowned.  The old Man and his Son made their way home as best they could, thinking to themselves, "When we try to please everybody, we please nobody."

Once we stop caring what others say and think, we truly emancipate ourselves from our own confinement...our captor....our own Ego.

Wednesday, April 11, 2018

You Won't Know Until You Find Out

Help!  My Wife thinks that we are going through a divorce...
Oh, no....it's far more severe than that my darling little KuKu...you're going through menopause.
Oh dear, it gets worse.   It can last for up to fifteen more years.
Wow...
That's like possibly another three or four presidents.  That's a long time, and lulu does luv a long time...to be miserable and crazy.
Menopause truly affects all women differently, hence no two women are equally or predictably affected.  So, it's no given things can go haywire.  For those that coast through it...you lucky ducks!
All men who are around middle aged women know firsthand how quickly and intensely things can and will spiral out of hormonal control.
It's analogous to being shipwrecked on a volcanic island with a tsunami heading right for you.
It's kinda like that except the menopause thing is really happening and no theoretical situation can take you out of it.
Yeah, doesn't that sound great.
Well...the best advice I can give to all shipwrecked sailors is that it's not personal...you just got caught at the wrong place at the wrong time.  As a matter of fact, if it weren't you it would be somebody else.
In due time, all this will come to pass and all marooned Mariners eventually find their way to the mainland.  It took Tom Hanks over four years with Wilson to find his way back home.  If he can do it, so can we.
It's a matter of learning to go with the flow, otherwise the rough waters will swallow up any and all lost and confused seafarers.
Learn the currents, pay attention to the winds.  Look skyward.
Red sky in the morning, sailors take Warning.
Red sky at night, sailors delight.
With all said, let's not all forget how the other side might feel.  Compassion and empathy for the hectic frenzy of the unreasonable chaos brought on by that nasty endagenous chemical transformation.

The really good news is, once it's over....it's over! Thanks God.
FYI, Sigmund Freud prescribed hysterectomies for menopausal women in order to help them cope with their hysteria.  Just saying...
Anyhow,
The craziest part of all this, I'm not even married.
Phew!

For your further enjoyment.
Men's Guide to Menopause posted by AARP

https://www.aarp.org/relationships/love-sex/info-09-2010/naked_truth_men_guide_to_menopause.html

and
10 Tibits that you May Not Know About Menopause
https://www.prevention.com/health/surprising-menopause-symptoms


Thursday, March 22, 2018

The Meaning of Life is Evolution


Yesterday was yesterday for a reason,
Today is something new altogether...starting with anything and everything you are willing to become, as long as you let yourself.
Stagnancies breed a decaying mindset
Breaking the dependence of past securities, and coming face to face with our fears in an effort to learn from them.
I know that I can never outran my fears, I am best served learning from them and evolving into a stronger version of who I once was...
Just as long as I allow yesterday to let my past remain where I left it.

True self growth requires an internal confidence and self sustainable freedom to continually evolve within ourselves....

Catch an Eye 4 an I

Truths come at us form each and every direct, irrelevant of who's the voice, with which tone or matter of logic, superstition and perspective is spoken or shared.
Truth, much like love, has no limits and no conditions and no specific or direct approach other than forward with an open an unbiased mind.
If a truth needs to be organized to lead or coerce, then the authenticity of the truth lacks the obviousness of its natural existence.
Does a true belief truly need to be organized for you in order to believe in it? Or is it best served to be logically evaluated and explained within one's mind eye?

What would you characterize or classify a truth already given as fact?
I have my own opinions on that.

If you have to rely on others for the truth in front of your own eyes, then being blind might already be the truth in your mind.

In oneself exist an entire world, and if you know how to look and learn behind each and every door the key is always within reach...
No one is here to lead you to any doors or hand you any keys,
It's up to the Eyes of the I to open all possibilities

Wednesday, March 7, 2018

How Different Are We Really?

Man created religion to deal with mortality.
Religion attempts to instill ethics, morals, norms, values and lifestyle guidelines.
Godless societies are harder to manage within the community of our planet, hence needing the order that religion can offer which can allow for more of a positive communal flow.
A cohesion of interests.
Like I said, an order.

I have come to the conclusion, that regardless of the verbiage or ethnic background, there are only two religions on our planet in all of our time...
There's the religion of fear
and
The religion of love

All religions come down to one and/or the other.  Regardless of saviors, enlightenment or transcendence...all religions speak with one of these two voices.
Now, I've come to believe that control is easier to exude when there is a threat of coercion, as per our human flaw of our ever so prevalent Ego.
Most, if not all of our disputes, battles, disagreements, quarrels, altercations and misunderstandings stem from our ego.  The truest human tragedy, and by far, the worst flaw we have to offer.
Threats of coercion are extremely effective in maintaining order.
Unfortunately, Why the majority religion is fear.
But fear lacks true compassion and empathy.
More importantly, fear lacks eternal growth.
Because fear suppresses the unknowns, the outliers, the peculiarities in exploration and privileges of expansion.
Fear helps control and maintain.
Need I explain what love offers?  Or would an obtuse eye lack the wisdom and direction of love.
Fear is callous, love the is all encompassing.
Yet, funny how mortality finds both.  Makes you wonder which path makes for a more comfortable journey.
Because, ultimately this is a journey we all get the opportunity to experience.  The truest gift of life.


It's easy to get angry at someone,
It's much harder to forgive them.
Life puts us the position to flourish or fail
It's up to us to become strong and survive
or
Disappear in the history of time.

Your choice, our world, this time or forever hold your peace.