Hurricane Irene

Has Come and Gone...like so much in life.  The aftermath has left much of Long Island decimated with uprooted trees and a loss of power in seemingly everywhere but at my house...curious?  Happenstance?  I say luck and Coincidence.  For those who do not know, I have consciously made the decision not to join in on the thrones of internet access where I live...I go home and I disconnect.  Many find it Odd, I know its peaceful.  There is much to be said over the serenity I surround myself with...no day is ever bad, instead everything is calming and Everchanging.  I accept the fact that many center the world around their own "Universe"...afterall it is all about you, always...I notice a trend, that people help out others if there is a personal benefit to be had...rarely have I observed outright, unselfish generosity followed/accompained by absolutely NO Expectation of reciprocation...
Walking (one of my favorite forms of Exercise) yesterday I noticed a Mother and her early Twenty-20's something year old daughter wavering back and forth holding some long object...seemingly to wave it in the air.  As I approach them some fifty yards away, I assume it is some sort of waste management apparatus (perhaps a long broom or something to that effect).  I reach within ten yards and I clearly see what they are attempting.  The mother had constructed a ten foot long wooden hook-like tool and they were in the process of collecting a cluster of downed wires.  I immediately shout out to them, STOP and call LIPA (Long Island Power Authority).  Its Never advised for untrained individuals to deal with downed wires...it is potentially leathal.  They heed my advise and stop.  As I walk past their property i count approximately twenty or so straggling Wires and a broken off power pole with some sort of transformer connected to it laying adjacent to their driveway.  The mother tells me that her daughter needs to drive to school...
I think to myself, not today...just stay alive and stay away from the wires, otherwise you will not have a daughter/nor will your daughter not have a mother.  Luckily and unbeknownst to them...power is out, no live conduction through those wires.  Otherwise I would have come across two dead people on my walk.

What A Buzzzzzz Kill!

Can you see me?

Can you see each other? Can you find your way around?

I, like so many others, am of Flesh and Blood...but where I differ is in my introspective ultraism that feeds my soul, hence spreading through spirit to anyone willing to listen...to be heard indicates that someone cares enough to listen...reciprocate good will, reap the benefits of a positive environment.

Guess What

The world is ending and it's not even 2012...?
What gives, I guess I'll go looking for survivors tomorrow.
If there are any?
Who will survive this? Will there be any survivors? This is serious business!
Somebody better survive, otherwise, I will be extremely bored not being able to haunt someone...don't disappoint me!

My Daily Rant

I never had a qualm over rocking any boat,
pushing any boundary...
Give me a spoon,
because I will stir the pot...
Whether you like it or not,
I'm just checking to see if you are
On Your Game...
are you paying attention
or just sleepwalking through life?
Wake Up, wake up....I will smack that sense
in your face, dare you to stare
into the eyes of logic...
make sense of this
ignore me not
ignore me if you want
your lose or your gain
either way,
its still your choice

is it really?
Free Will
the true gift in life
it exists
so use it

Why are people so fearful?
This Storm
"Hurricane Irene"
Media frenzy...
scarring everyone into shopping sprees
of what?
water, bread, eggs...
give me a break

For what its worth,
the weather is, what it will be
To be concerned over it in any way
is ridiculous...
its completely out of my hands...
why should I worry about it
Why?
The best that I can do is deal with it
afterwards...just like everybody else will have too

Why is everyone so scare
what are you all afraid of?
Who is left out there, thinking for themselves?

Neo,can you hear me...

Wouldn't You Know It

I guess this is considered
My five minutes of fame?
Almost like a feather in my cap!

A funny thing happened,
A little birdie told me
That I've been censored
And banned?
Or is it called "blocked"?
In the country of China...
Hhhhmmmm....
I know that I have been
Read in China...
Was it by the will of those readers
That opted to decide
The words from this blog
Are not worthy of the other readers in China

HA with a scoff

I never thought the day would come
That I needed to be "censored"
And
If I had written a book or two
Would they be burned in China too?

Every person has a voice
Everybody has the right to be heard
After all
The strongest muscle
Pound for pound
In the human body
Is the tongue
(powered by one of the most developed nerves call the Hypoglossal Nerve)

Now use your eyes and mind
See and interpret my words
And then come to your own conclusion
Not someone else's

*Brought to you by China Censorship Central

Paying my Respects

To not only a woman who is an absolute beauty, a head turner even within a sea of infinite stunning women...but also a master practioner in a multitude of Yoga disciplines. Her name is Kat Fowler and she teaches out of Long Beach, Long Island. Bravo and may you continue to bless and be blessed Ms Fowler.

When it comes to your Will.."The One You Feed, is the One That Wins"

The Cherokee believe that each individual has 1One1 of T2w2o roads of emotional motives that they can journey down...
The first path has negativity attached with it. Anger. Envy. Jealousy. Sorrow. Regret. Greed. Arrogance. Self-pity. Guilt. Resentment. Inferiority. Lies. False Pride. Superiority. Ego. Its a long lonely trot, that spreads itself like a plague to anyone who touches...or even glances in this direction. A self feeding cycle at times...most people down here almost feel trapped beyond their will...
The Alternate route has Joy. Peace. Love. Hope. Serenity. Humility. Kindness. Benevolence. Empathy. Generosity. Truth. Compassion. Faith. All qualities that blissfully charm and raise your soul. Touched by a heaven...never grounded. Its easy to share and spread this euphoric devoted affection.

Two roads ahead of you, its your choice which direction you choose to walk down...

Marilyn Said It Best

"I am Selfish...
even Impatient...
sometimes insecure (everyone is at some point)

I've made mistakes
lots of them
even with people I deeply care for

On occasion I might get myself into trouble
by crashing out of control
and
at times
real hard to handle...
You have no idea!

But if you can't handle me at my worst,
then you sure as hell should not deserve
to live through my best"

Well said Ms. Monroe
Born as Ms. Norma Jeane Mortenson
Baptized and raised as Norma Jeane Baker



P.S.
"A Pessimist (might know a couple)
sees difficulty
in every Opportunity

An Optmist (they exist too)
sees Opportunity
in Every Difficulty."

-Sir Winston Churchill

Here is a F1rst

I am surprised, not that it was impossible to achieve a quantitative type of daily international readership...Fifty51%OnePercent of the current days readers were from the Netherlands. Roughly Sixty65Five00Hundred readers...domestic and international to date. Again, not to sound like a broken record...but thanx for taking the time to take a glimpse into a realm of the what ifs and what could/shoulds that shroud our lives revealing the ambiguities and lessons we all get exposed too. Life is a lesson plan, resilience coupled with perseverance (two similar yet distinct qualities to human survival), with an Eye towards a destination point...put you on a journey Destined for Success.
Speaking of which, I ditched my buddies last night...in their midst of loathing and introspectively complaining about their unfair rigors of their lives. I Ditched them for a plate of Loukoumades and Galahtoboureko. I win...Yum, Yum, and Yum.
I love my sweets, tender and moist...satiating a craving that only the Love of the Chef can provided.
It's that time of my Sunday, whereby I will challenge the boundaries of my Physicality...how many pull ups and push ups can I do? Herschal Walker, perhaps one of this Planet most physically gifted Humans performs ThirtyFive3500Hundred Sit Ups and One1000Thousand Push Ups daily. No Pull ups for Hersch though, so at least I am one up on him on that (maybe). I'll check back in about two thousand calories (probably the equivalent of an Opulant McDonalds meal)...happy eating that Bic Mac and Super Sized Fry with a Large Coca Cola. I have boundaries to surpass, personal expectations to meet and hopefully exceed. Quitting is not in my DNA...and it shouldn't be in yours either.

Cliche is So NOT me

But
I LOVE Facts
they prove truths
Depending how you look at them
Plus
I Love having the
Ability to formulate my own thoughts
FREE WILL
My Decisions
(but sponsored by who?)
Me! But of course...who would you think?
Debates are great
they expand our thinking
Expose us to new and different perspectives
thats how you and I will grow
Tall with Beauty
Immaculate and Priceless
Oh so Precious
its where beauty and intellect converge to become one

ToAffectTheQuantityOfTheDay,
ThatIsTheHighestOfTheArts

Bermuda

Found East of Cape Hatteras, North Carolina...almost symmetrically distant from Halifax, Nova Scotia and Miami,Florida...It is an oversees territory of the Great British Emprire.
Originally "discovered" (wink,wink) by Spanish Conquistador Juan de Bermudez (that was the name of my high school sophomore year math teacher...I had no idea he was a Spanish Conquistador...he toned it down though, called himself "Joe") in Fifteen1505Five (A.D.).
Interesting statement made of Bermuda...it has been thought (although difficult to verify since it is a territory and its own country) it may house the highest GDP per capita in the world...hello Bailout,may we all get another.
Funnest fact about this place, it makes up for the eastern most point of the mythically mysterious Bermuda Triangle (I think Mulder and Scully might still be there). Bermuda's only indigenous mammal(s) are Five species of bats (I'm not that much of a nerd to tell you). For Your Personal information, the Bermuda Petrel is the national bird. You guys will all totally rock it out on Jeopardy!
Bermuda is also divided into 9nine9 Parishes and two2two Municipalities...unfortunately they are all vested in the Monarch, yet (potentially/luckily) exercised on her behalf by the Governor (who is always appointed by the Queen)...yet have no seat in the United Nations.
Nonetheless, this place is the Forty49Ninth defined and distinguished area on this planet (pseudo-country) to be exposed to the travels of Captain Patrick C. Benson
Sailor
Philosopher
Thank you to all
Be Blessed Today

Life is too Short

...to wake up in the morning
with regrets
(sigh)
HA

So,
Love unconditionally the people
who treat you right,

Forgive the ones
who don't

Just surround yourself with good people
I Have

Believe that everything happens for a reason
what ever the reasons may be

If you get a Chance
Take it

If it changes you
let it
For the Better

NOBODY told me
that any of this
would be easy

Let me promise you
its all going to be worth it

Calling OchoCinco

Meet Susan Herrnstein. She is seventy three years of age..and you are a most welcome guest into her Cambridge home. What you may need is a little, New England motherly love...
Be good
Be well
Be healthy
And
Be blessed

Paging Mr. Zach Weber

The World according to Zack,
he claims that the world
is dopey
and
unmotivated

sounds to me that Mr. Weber
masters his own will
with the many fanciful words
that fill his worldly thoughts

I do have One commonality with Mr Weber
1One2TwentySeven7

King of Ithaca

This weekend threatens me with a barrage of freaks, midgets, sirens, giants, prophets, Lotus Eaters, A Six666Headed666Monster, plus a few cannibals and many witches....perhaps I'll be lucky enough to tango with a cyclops. Seven Years Stranded with Calypso...poor me, right? I will be reliving Ulysses journey back home...will I be able to string my Bow and shoot it through a dozen axe heads?
In the chronicles of Dante, founded in his Inferno of the Divine Comedy...he encounters Odysseus near the very bottom of Hell walking around wrapped in flame in the Eighth Ring of the Eighth Circle...the Home of the fraudulent repenting his sins of Guilt...In the final Journey...Driven with an unquenched thirst of immortal awareness
"Men are not made to live like Brutes...but to follow Knowledge and Virtue"

Steely Sings
"Home at Last"

Ever Have A Real Bad Day

SHELBYVILLE, Ky. -- The dispute between a Kentucky man and a surgeon over the necessity of amputating the patient's penis during surgery in 2008 is set to go to trial this week.
The doctor maintains he found cancer in the man's penis during surgery and that it had to be removed, according to the physician's attorney. The patient claims the surgery was supposed to be a circumcision and he never authorized the amputation, nor was he given a chance to seek a second opinion.
Jury selection begins Thursday in the lawsuit brought by Phillip Seaton of Waddy and his wife, Deborah, against Dr. John Patterson of Louisville. Attorneys hope to start opening statements that afternoon.
The Seatons sued Patterson in Shelby County Circuit Court in 2008 after an operation that resulted in the amputation.

Seaton, now in his 60s, was having the procedure on Oct. 19, 2007, to better treat inflammation.

Neither Kevin George, the attorney for the Seatons, nor Clay Robinson, the attorney for Patterson, would comment on the case. George said Shelby Circuit Judge Charles Hickman asked the lawyers to refrain from making public statements. Robinson did not respond to phone and email messages left at his office in recent weeks.

The lawsuit alleges Patterson removed Seaton's penis without consulting either Phillip or Deborah Seaton.

George said during a pre-trial hearing on Aug. 2 that the case comes down to whether jurors believe the amputation "was a necessary part of the surgery.'

"This is really a fact-driven case," Shelby Circuit Judge Charles Hickman said during the pre-trial conference.
George has said that the doctor's post-surgical notes show Patterson thought he detected cancer and removed the penis. But, George added, the situation was not an emergency.
"It@ didn't have to happen that way," George said in 2008, shortly after the lawsuit was filed.
Robinson has previously said that Patterson, a Kentucky-based urologist, had permission to perform any medical procedure deemed necessary and that the doctor found cancer in the organ during the surgery. Robinson has said that Patterson "had no reasonable option" but to remove the cancer.
"Mr. Seaton's problem was not the surgery, it was the cancer," Robinson said in 2008.

The trial had initially been set for January, but Hickman delayed the proceedings because of pre-trial publicity.

"I'm optimistic we can seat this jury," Robinson said during the pre-trial hearing.

The Seatons are seeking unspecified damages from Patterson for "loss of service, love and affection."

The Seatons also sued Jewish Hospital, where the surgery took place. The hospital settled with the Seatons for an undisclosed amount.

The Seatons' suit is similar to one in which an Indianapolis man was awarded more than $2.3 million in damages after he claimed his penis and left testicle were removed without his consent during surgery for an infection in 1997.

Article by Brett Barrouquere


P.S. See what happens when there are misunderstanding between two individuals...just stating the obvious. Not to be making any excuses.
Only in Kentucky!

"To Accomplish Greatness...

You Must not ONLY act...

...but also Dream;

Not only Plan...

...but also Believe!"


-Anatole France
via
Patrick Benson

P.S.
One Love*One Heart@One Vision

May you all be Blessed Today

What Feels MOST Natural to Me

Is the Shillelagh I Use
to Strike the Only Drum I know
Flowing with the steps to that March
better then anybody Else
The Beat, so Rhythmic
so natural, synchronized
to a Tone I clearly hear
with both ears
and I could care less
if anyone else
comes along

Too Many people worry
about marching out of tune

Walk at your own pace,
after all Life is never a race
its a long journey travelled quickly
and along the way
you'll touch many souls
and whisper many secrets

Be Good
Be Well
Be Healthy
and
Be Blessed

Namaste

Mary, along with so many

Often wonder
how and when
do i find..

where
or even how???

What tha!?

How could I possibly know?

No seriously

Where Do I come up with this shit?

My Most frequently asked question.

I am just One Person, and my words sometimes strike the right cords. Remember this is our journey. These are our Lives. And we are all here to learn and Experience. I guess i keep my ear (my Left one, or would it be my right?) close to the ground...and i just catch the right vibration...as if I am wading in the water and the right wave comes along...and I coast it right to the shore.

WhatMovesMe?WhatMotivatesMe?WhereDoesMyInspirationComeFrom?

The Many,many everyday folk that I meet daily...
day in and day out...If I were to turn this Blog Into a Book I'd call it
ThreeHundred365sixty-five Days, One100Hundred People
So, In essence

You all

P.S. Keep Smiling
it makes people
wonder
what You've Been Up too

Preoccupied with Other People or things Outside of Our Lives?

What do ignoring problems, accepting excuses and/or attempting to cover up sticky predicaments in relationships represent? Enabling the behavior of individuals in a Codependent dynamic. This is a discussion that I have held here before, in our forum because I find this dysfunction all around me...in relationships involving me or people that I know. What I find most interesting is that the Codependent personalities (defined as putting all Of Your Focus on the needs of another individual) seek out individuals who are emotionally unavailable, needy or just unreliable and unable to adequately contribute in a relationship on any sort of fair level. The Codependent individual attempts to provide for and have some control for the dysfunction within the relationship without necessarily addressing their own personal needs...ultimately enhancing their own personal emotional void of relationship fulfillment. Often enough Codependent personalities display compulsive and excessive behaviors.
8EIGHT8 Signs...
One. Difficulty in making relationship decisions. 2. Difficulty Communicating? Thr3e. Value the approval of others more so then valuing yourself. 4Four4....Fears of abandonment. Four-and-A-Half. Obsessive need for approval. Fi5e.....Lacking Trust in yourself/poor self esteem. 6. Difficulty Identifying your own feelings. Seven77 Unhealthy dependence on relationships (even at your own cost).
Final...
Exaggerated sense of responsibility!

What could You Do?
You know what to do.
I don't have to tell you what to do, because it doesn't matter what I tell you...you will all still do what you want...
even at your own cost.

That is your price, no cost on my end...

P.S. You rarely find this sort of behavior in Healthy Relationships.

How sexy are your shoes

I have a dozen sneakers, none of which are the least bit snazzy or catchy. I do though have a wider assortment of dress shoes...mostly black. But where would I wear them too? Contrary to what you may seem to believe, I very much enjoy the feel Of a sharp dressed outing. The majority of my time is spent under the constant threat of doing push ups, pull ups or some sort of squat...and when I am really misbehaving...I just might have to sit in a room full a smelly and sweaty peers looking to transform their physique into the "ideal image", as per the advice of such publications such as Cosmopolitan and Shape (just to mention two of many....and shame on them all for brainwashing such fragile psyches)...I do not like predatory-like antics/behavior. I like sticking Up for the little guy, always have. So don't push my buttons...there is a saying that rings so true for my fighting spirit
Fuck with the Bull, you'll get my horns

I Dare You to
Dangle a Red Flag

P.S. Just in Case you might be Wondering
I am wear a Size 14 Brooks sneaker that I bought less then Six6siX months ago
yet they seem to look as if I bought them just before the Obama Administration
Mary G tells I need a new pair...
isn't thir13teen unlucky?

I DO Not believe in Miracles, I DEPEND On Them!

You may need to
Ask Yourself

No matter how complicated and confusing
I can, and will be
Do You think
That life
Is all about destiny
Or is it
The decisions of
Your free will?

With
No exceptions
and/or
No apologies

Learn must learn
to experience emotional growth
with spiritual evolution

A softening forgiving heart will heal and
yield to the various tragedies of life

When we forgive,
We learn and we grow

Sometimes, the hardest person to forgive
is ourselves

It has always been Optional

Always has been
Keeping your body
(whether its physiological,
or even
under emotional duress)
in less then its optimal working condition...
its your choice whether you choose
to keep yourself Fit
or
Unfit

Its a decision that has infinite repercussion for yourself and those around you that love and care about you...
Sometimes we do things the most,
for the people we care most about

Love Yourself and love those around you

Crack in Your Voice, you are Out of Sync...

Round three on the chug-a-thon...Alex, her friend Kenny and their blonde Kelly Ripa look-a-like friend with our best friend Joe...they're singing to grunge music, drinking bud light and doing shots of Vodka...arguing about classic rock...I'm feeling my buzz and I haven't even finished my third beer (I'm such a beer sissy).  The First two were Bud Lights, the third...Heineken (brewed in Holland...should I believe them).  My newest acquaintance is a shore away....she's complaining that she's home alone...yet she has not reciprocated any communication.  This could mean a few things, most likely on the surface...she's not yet interested In Captain Benson...Captain Patrick C. Benson.  Big surprise, its not my name.  I've been called many things in my life...some good, other times...mean spirited, negative things...Stick N Stones may break my bones, but bad words would never hurt me....Bullshit, they sting worse then any stick or any stone...just stating the obvious.  She's drop dead sexy with large green eyes....not only mine, but everyones favorite...right?  Personal tastes, are just that....personal to the individual.  Like what you like, and make no excuses.  This rowdy bunch wants to sing Karaoke.  I love listening to people sing almost as much as watching them do push ups or pull ups...lunges anyone?  Only for my select fans whom treasure their one-on-one time with me...sure they do, just like a root canal at the dentist.  In the past day (that means in the last twenty24four hours)  I've been shared through this land....and up to the Rising Sun...whatcha thinking, no one is listening?  Somedays it feels that way, other days it seems as if everyone is busting your balls...I've noticed though not everyone has balls...literally and figuratively...not to point any fingers (don't take me too literally, OK...seems to be a common mistake amongst people who have yet to feel my verbal rifts)...like Asian Kenny, he's for real...its cause he's Asian...thats what Kelly says, just after she sings out of tune while Kenny harmonizes on the Guitar.  Group Hug anyone?

Trevor calls me...

One Persistent Bastard...
I hate
and hate is such a strong and absolute word
That I don't believe in using due to its negative connotation
but I hate
to think that I have it in me
to give up
So I Don't give up
Ever
...
I guess he's right
I'm One Persistent bastard

P.s. for everyone out there
Never Give Up on what you believe in

Emerald Isle

My Forty48Eight sight of exposure...
...may their luck follow us all

How I Love That Emerald color

Has He EVER lied?

Mr. Ocho8Cinco5 (not his first mention on his Blog) claims that he will select a New England Patriots Fan to live with for the first few weeks of the season...Almost makes me want to be a fan just so I would have a punchers chance to live with perhaps one of the quirkiest prima donnas I have ever come across. Not to mention another obvious obstacle I'd have to over come in order to be seriously considered...my residence...Sorry my northern Friends I am perfectly happy living on this longgggg Island (some Seven7Million Folk between Brooklyn, Queens, Nassau County and Suffolk County)...although I am a sailor and the wind can take any direction...just not up to New England for this 2011 Football season
This has reality T.V. written all over it. What have we been brought too in this mindless world that is so ensnared in watching this talentless programming? I'd rather think then be thought for...

Eight Pieces of advice to Salvage Your Relationship(s)

Some days I feel that I may need a tad bit more then *8Eight8*...but every little bit can help. We often do what we want, even if the drive comes from the unconscious mind. We can verbalize something/anything...but its our actions that determine our desires. You make your self emotionally unavailable to your partner, chances are it is your unconscious self that is steering you down that road...regardless of what you are saying...its what you are doing that becomes more pertinent.


Trust your heart, because our thoughts can deceive us...
...better yet come to the reality of what feels best...
and act on what feels right...
Trust the intuition
those signals
that come
from the heart
Your Heart

then again, that may be the only advice that truly matters...???
But what do I know, i seem to create my own obstacles
perhaps to see if I have the gumption to overcome them?
Or just that
I could be that dumb
to be my own greatest antagonist

I can be such a persistent pest

How Smart Do You Really Think You Are?

For the Most Part(?), I'd like to think that my relatives are bright and creative people...Some brighter then others...God Only Knows what My relatives think of me. My Co-Workers say that I am smarter then I look (is that a left handed compliment?)...my girlfriends in my past say that I'm dumber then I give myself credit for (an eloquent insult, no?). The merchants I frequent never know what to expect from me. If I were to write an autobiography of myself...maybe I start at the end, and then fill in the blanks with flashbacks (but of what?). I meet many people because of my job and life style. I make many friends...not everybody takes to me, especially at first. I'm quiet to the new folk, and quite frankly that scares them. My memory is potentially flawless, my math skills are a decibel or two away from a calculator. Ket called me rain man once...but she fails to realize that logic drives my car, which I am an excellent driver, yeah. I take Yoga class every day, so I can stop my thinking...otherwise I would forever...I love to philosophize...even on Tuesday's. I am who I am, and I make no apologies nor any excuses. I was born to be who I have become, and I don't even attempt to hide my essence in someone elses garb. I'm just myself, and if you take the time to get to know me, you'd know not to take me too seriously...therefore you shouldn't get your feathers in a big ruff...The only thing I will apologize to you for is that I won't apologize for who I am. I'm open minded enough to accept anyone and everyone for who they are...it would be nice of you to do the same as well. I do find that stupidity is rampant and ignorance is the disease that plagues this planet...

Accept yourselves and each other...
Learn to Love
Forget how to hate

Is it an insult?

The roots are war and lock, and the meaning is someone whom breaks faith/or an oath...it bares no gender and makes no promise. It comes across as an insult and the bible warns its believer not dabble in the black arts.
But how far will one go, the full moon is nearing upon us.
Spirits are rumbling, chaos is threatening...
Words
Stones
Oaths
whatever works
...
Dragon's Blood

The closet I come to believing
in anything
Is the day I leave my scientific Box
disprove facts
deny accountability
Result
reproducible results
That is what I believe in
Have I lost faith?

Thank You to All

Who participate in the voyeristic world that I have created for us all to learn from and enjoy. Last Night Marked the Sixth6000thousand reader to have joined our selected fraternity in the daily joys and follies we investigate. Without you, i truly would only be writing to myself...and that would be boring and repetitive.

P.S. I'm certainly Feeling the love from My Swedish representatives...they're probably wondering too what is under th Baltic Sea...? Any suggestions? Anybody?

We are all Guided in Life

Her Name is Beautiful

Allegra...
Her Breathtaking Pale complexion is well complimented with the rosy speckles that line and decorate her cherub-like cheeks. With her long and flowing red hair and batty beautiful Green Eyes...she flirts and seduces with an effortless look..her forehead is quietly concealed by neatly groomed bangs. That sparkling smile, so contagious with its brimming energy. Her personality is perky and quirky. Her Ideal day is to stare at fish. Big Fish, little fish...it never makes a difference to Allegra...Her name means Friendship. Meet her, you'll be lucky to make her an acquaintance

Forty47Seven

Two of my Favorite Numbers....Welcome my Egyptian Readers

Make a Difference

Inspire Change

Ever Been Accused of People Watching?

Since being observant (with preference in mute mode) comes so naturally to me...I silently observed a couple on a date(perhaps even their first).  They appeared to be somewhat new acquaintances on a personal level.  The young lady, whom arrived a solid ten10minutes prior to her male companion for their rendezvous, was extremely pretty with a fairly svelte yet proportionately shapely figure.  Her reddish hair was up in a some sort of collected configuration on the crown of her head. Her hazel colored eyes spaced liberally beyond her cute little button nose.  Her charming round face was lightly decorated with a montage of freckles.  With each change in song being played, i could see her delicately swivel her hips in an erotic and seductive fashion...quietly alluring her next prey to be...
Her date, who was ten minutes late...and we are still waiting...was  Slightly older then her and already balding.  His physique, undergoing premature aging with gross consumption of beer and hot wings/french fries (he doesn't look to be the type to even know where the start button on a treadmill or a G-Spot might be)...he sat himself opposite of her...both of them in my direct field of view.  His mood was antsy...Nervous buddy?
Not even five5minutes into their date, the lass has already downed a glass of Pinot Grigio...Yuck (but who am I to question personal tastes and preference?)!  He leans over and whispers a request.  Obviously I am a tad bit too far away to over hear their conversation....but, boy do I relish my role of filling in the blanks...with my many silly amenities from my infinite bag of tricks.  She seems begrudgingly willing to comply with his request.  They systematically and in unison stand up off of their high chairs/bar stool and rotate onehundred180eighty degrees...swapping their seating arrangement.  Curious.  Why?  The T.V. in the bar is now situated directly over the young lady's left shoulder...his eyes become magnetized to the screen.  Real Good Move Buddy!
In a young relationship, why would this fellow...in the midst of a pennant chase between the Red Sox and the Yankees...would he agree to go on a date to a sports bar like atmosphere?  The first rule in dating etiquette my friend....always, always and I mean always pay all of your attention to your date (asking questions is a major bonus)...this heightens your probability for a subsequent date!  Its only logical.
Now the question does remain, will they ever have the same dynamic beyond this date?  She wasn't the happiest camper with her new company (ever try sailing?)...but like I've said before, I am not in the business of reading minds...and even if I were, I still would keep it as my secret.  I had to bite my tongue from introducing myself to this couple and get their immediate feedback from their respected perspectives based upon my own creation of the observed events.  Who knows, maybe I could have saved their relationship (for the moment)...at the very least, I may have made two new readers.  I could have been their informal relationship therapist...a dynamic that is becoming all too common because people are continually failing to properly and adequately communicate with each other.  Am I the Last Standing Individual willing to take that leap of faith and force the issue of good communication?

Life According to Joe...because this guy was being a self absorbed Dick (i was basically called that once proceeding a first date), and primarily concerned with the ball game (I don't mix my women and sports)...Joe bets he gets a second date.

Who Knows, maybe this guy does not want a second date...our nonverbal behavior is a good indicator as to where our hearts lay...maybe he has little desire for her company.  Perhaps he's married to a fantastical world of baseball...its great to fantasize about sports, just not on a first date...if he ever wanted to see her again!


P.S. What is the Difference between a Golf ball and a G spot? A man will spend a half hour looking for a Golf ball.

How Exciting!

This is my first posting from my first gadget. I've often swore that I will not fall victim and enslave myself to the dependancy of technology...i guess i lied, but with just cause. From a professional stand point, i've elected to conform my business to a paperless filing system. No need to fret, my memory is stll honed to recall all details...my original computer still sits between my ears. As should yours. Never lose sight of that fact, you are one of the original and perfect prototypes of any and all creations...not only on this planet, but in the creation of this entire universe. Even with all our imperfections...we are all still perfect, because life is our flawless and special gift that immortalizes us all.

Its always interesting to me

To trace the origin of my readership...
as per my most recent example
And I must give credit, where credit is due
Thank You to my Australian reader...who brought this search to my attention
this reader decided to seek out Shakespearean quotes
from Macbeth...Human Dynamics was the Seve7th Google hit
(out of over twenty27,000+thousand hits)!

"To Show an unfelt sorrow is an office..."

I've always had a fancy for Macbeth

P.S.  Google Alison Demaria

and Human Dynamics

will be the For4th hit

out of over

Four Milli000000n

Wait until I tell Alison

How many XTimesX she's been

Googled

and found in

Human Dynamics and Interpersonal Relations

Six6thSense

There is an interesting person whom was brought to my attention.  I will conceal her identity for a few obvious reasons...shes no hoax either, she has no motive to fool anyone.  I can not wait to meet her.

What is the Great Blue Hole off the coast of Belize?

The Mysteries O of Perfect circles O seem to be popping up O everywhere lately, why?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Blue_Hole

Greco-Roman Goddess Hecate

Her specialties...nurturing children, gates/doors/walls, lunar lore, magic, witchcraft, necromancy and cross-roads...she is also a protector of entrances.  She is intrinsically ambivalent and polymorphous...straddling conventional boundaries, ever so eluding any sort of true definition...yet always appearing with thr3e faces and Ruling over THR3E Kingdoms...the earth, the sea, and the sky....having great strength to create or hold back storms, which influenced her patronage of shepherds an sailors.  Decision making in lives are our unavoidable measure in our abilities to adapt to the challenges we all encounter....so when you come across that next cross road...With her Trimorphic Image displayed, devilishly charming your direction...which path will you choose?

Whats Under The Baltic Sea?

For the Non-Geography Majors that may be reading this Blog Entry on the Baltic Sea?  (Why am I even discussing This?) P.S. with that note, let me justify something...I always have my purpose behind my actions, (regardless of how bizarre I may come across) and in some instances my reasons and motives may seem Suspect/obsolete or even irrelevant/not pertinent...that may be so, but I Still Have MY reasons.
The Baltic Sea is a North of the Mediterranean Sea, and it is surrounded primarily by Sweden, Finland, a few old U.S.S.R. countries, Poland and Germany.  Its considered a brackish inland sea (perhaps the largest of its kind on the planet...interesting side note), that was formed during the last Ice Age.  Its Sixteen1600Kilometers Long.  OneHundred120Twenty Miles Wide.  With a Maximum depth of over FourHundred450Fifty meters (equivalent to twohundred250fifty fathoms...that is deep).  Total Coastline is over FiveThousand5000Miles.  Just as an aside, Brackish Water is saltier then water, but not as salty as sea water...just throwing that bit of information out there for you...root word "brak" in Dutch means salty!!!
Anyways, what the hell was found in the Baltic Sea?

http://www.aol.com/2011/08/01/underwater-ufo_n_915429.html?icid=maing-grid7|main5|dl3|sec3_lnk2|82718

There is Only One

Who can enlighten you...and that is yourself
A guide can only direct you

you still need to walk the path

A mentor can attempt to educate

its up to you to learn from their directives

all in hopes of
finding the truth(s) that you may be seeking...those answers can only be ascertained from an intrinsic examination that you initiate and complete...

its a spiritual search to be resolved by your own mind...

Anything external is only a decoy, a distraction of this journey

Travel beyond your own consciousness, and your path of awakening will be lost...no substitution, no supplementation...will ever quench your thirst for awakening your Own Consciousness!!!

It is Imperative to Understand that

It is an absolute Mistake to Think of the Worse too Quickly!

P.S. Failure Seldom stops You

Its Your Fear of Failing

that often Does

You Need to have Faith
Believe that you can succeed
before you even begin

Take the Leap
otherwise you'll never know