Sophistry

            Relationships are living

its an

existing bond

between two

consenting parties

                  WHY is it that we believe that OUR own happiness can be a creation of someones words or actions?  Someone other then US?
that the experience of Pain and Joy can come from their hand?
Is it possible...that somebody else loves us more than...dare i say love ourselves...?

     Our society and its structure, whether its here and now, or of yesteryear...is the genesis that formulates our beliefs of societal roles.  That is the principle that entraps our mind to create expectations.  With expectations come standards.  Standards will either be met or missed.  This depends upon the setting bestowed by the evaluator.  Hence...Interpretation is in the eye of the beholder.
Therefore an individuals perception will dictate any given situation.  Unrealistic standards coupled with individual perception can potentially lead to a tumultuous state of existence.  Which will help explain the life of any given relationship.
The success and longevity of a bond lies in the strength rooted by both parties.  If expectations are reasonable, it sets the table for a flourishing connection.  Water the ground, and watch a beautiful growth evolve...together, they will sprout under the warmth of all encompassing SUN