Thursday, April 18, 2013

Why do People Cheat?

The Normal Bar
A survey of over 100,000 people
Which was published THIS year
Showed that
71% of unfaithful Men
and
49% of unfaithful Women
C H E A T E D
Because of
Sexual Boredom/not enough intimacy in their Relationships

Other common reasons cited
Need for thrill or excitement
Not comfortable sharing intimate desires/fantasies

Other Important Relationship Points....
Trust and lies were two big relationship issues in this survey as well.
White Lies, you can't fault them...they are meant to protect your partner's ego
"Honey, you were a champ last night!"
Yea right!  But no one gets hurt.
It's those other lies that hurt.
"Where were you?  I couldn't get a hold of you?"
"Oh yeah, my cell died...yada yada yada"

It's those lies, that slowly deteriorate TRUST!

Survey Fact
Half of the Men AND Women surveyed have snuck a peek at private emails/text messages....
That's a NO NO!  Not always...just only if you are there to snoop and find something...
A lot times, people will not log out...and by chance, you catch a glimpse of private info.
But,
When you deliberately conspire to find other private matters...well, that's being dishonest.
(It happened to me, not too Long Ago)
How did I respond?
I lost my trust for her.

http://articles.washingtonpost.com/2013-02-08/lifestyle/36980624_1_couples-relationship-survey-results

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/01/21/couples-love-sex-relationships/1851965/

http://www.aarp.org/relationships/love-sex/info-05-2011/normal-bar-sex-survey.html

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/09/sex-lies-the-normal-bar_n_2649606.html

http://www.rd.com/advice/relationships/are-you-normal-take-the-normal-bar-survey/

Here are ten signs that your relationship is a common relationship
http://www.yourtango.com/2013173053/10-signs-your-relationship-normal

And Without Much Ado
The Normal Bar website

http://www.thenormalbar.com/




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