Oh, I bet this can work

It seems impossible, no?
Logic and Reason to coincide with desires only loins could incite?

But seriously...should one be forced (and allowed) to use their hormone fluctuations as an excuse as to why they erratically behave?
Without reason...without any thought or mindfulness...

Being Someone who has forgiveness ingrained in my DNA...I let a lot things slip on by...that most people can't get their heads or hearts wrapped around.
But, i am very accepting and forgiving...so then I let it all slide on by...
Passing me like a parade.

So...
Back to my theme...

How
can
MEN
STOP
thinking with their
DICKS
????
men and women want to know???

Geez, can it be as simple as indulging in personal physical and intimate gratification in the early morning hours...without involving or disturbing anyone else?
That takes planning.  It takes Action.
But, all in all...that's personal business best kept to yourself!

Why not try a notebook?
Yes!
Write FIVE obtainable goals in your little black book...and carry it with you wherever you go...
Use pictures, words, diagrams...whatever it is you need to get your point across!
Every day, take some notes...on what you did to inch your way to your goal.
Keep the goals simple and attainable, that way you find achievements through out the year...maintaining a motivated and preoccupied self...
before long...you'll be relaxed and without distraction.

Try finding Hobbies...like
playing sports, working out, play video games, read, write, draw, paint...find something that keeps you busy and out of your teeny tiny head.

Find a companion that will keep intimate matters at bay...

Get a busy Job...one in which libido levels get squelched by.

Try drinking alot.
BUT
be careful of Cirrhosis

Well...if the above suggestions seem a bit too complex...or difficult to acheieve...

WORK a little HARDER then!

Women love Powerful and Charismatic Men.  Its about controlling your energy. I REPEAT...CONFIDANT and IN CONTROL..someone who OWNS their own energy
TOO MANNY MEN make their power and energy work against them...they become enslaved by their desires...and that is the ironic shame in all of this...their energy is uncontrolled, as if they are hopelessly attempting to capture a feral cat.  When you emit this uncontrolled energy out...it comes across as...
CRAZY and Desperate.
Desperation is a COMPETE TURN OFF...in every possible conceivable situation...
Desperation also has an elements of Objectifying others..and its clear and transparent to all who witness acts of desperation.
It defragments the individual...it dehumanizes them.
Once, you start treating others as people and NOT as objects...connections develop...when connections form...frustration diminishes.
Also,
speaking of Objects...stop labeling women as "Trophies"
Stop Bragging...its so uncouth...

Thinking with your loins is bad for your Head, bad for your Heart...and bad for your SOUL.

Learn to look at people as a WHOLE...and not in segments or fragments who are here to instantly satisfy our fleeting desires.

So, my advice...
Be yourself, think independently...treat people with respect.
These are people...and,
People have feelings, pressure points and interests...LISTEN, relate and connect to people through these alleyways.

Pay attention and focus on understanding one an other...

Even feral cats can get caught....


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