Awkward Turtles

Dating?
or
General interacting etiquette
Lessen number #53 Fifty-three

     Even if you just love to gabbbbbbb....take a moment (hear and there) to actually listen to what your date has to say.  Engage them, show interest in them...ask a question (or two even 3, if you absolutely must).  Attempt to equally share time with how much each of you has something to share and contribute.
Quick Question
How long is that period of silence that turns into an uncomfortable silence?
     Varies between individuals and settings, for example i can sit rather calmly and quietly next to someone like Lindsey Vonn...(I won't stare though...now that would be rather uncomforting for her and I).  At this point, it would be ideal to re-invigorate the conversation by asking a question...avoid asking YES or NO type of questions.  Incorporating an articulate question would be best.  Show interest and thought in your response to their answer...bonus points if you incorporate a subsequent question  **Warning**  Be weary of individuals that Like to talk about themselves...vanity is a most unwelcoming quality (aka Hughes!). Its best to be yourself, humoring any situation is also encouraged...activities, jobs, tasks that need to get done NOW with some help could be helpful...And don't try too Hard, people sense it, it increases the awkwardness.


Lesson Number Twelve #12
Uninterested?
NONONONONONO...saying No to a date can be difficult for some...its easier to say Yes (albeit uncomfortably)...its always best to not string along someone's hope with Yeses or maybes!  Its best for you and them if you say No from the very beginning.