Do you believe in "The One"?

If so...
Finding the One, does it involve an active search???
Or,
will your paths be destined to cross?
And...if they do...what will you do?

On September 27, 2010 I started a blog...this very blog! My first entry specifically deals with THIS topic and I titled it "Single Life".
Bottom line, perfection is the unattainable (for a variety of reason). Perfection only exists in fairy tales. Since people evolve continually, no one is ever the same from the point you meet them. So if someone seems like a perfect fit, they may be for this moment...but where will you be down the road? Where will they be then? Will things still be "perfect"?
In my humble opinion, we need to be more understanding and accepting...rather than forcing or expecting others to perfectly conform to the mold ideal to what we want (that only sets us up for failed expectations). By accepting others, and allowing yourself to grow in your natural direction...then you are best served finding OTHERS who share those beliefs and anticipate a similar maturation.

P.s. everyone comes into our lives for a reason, and the reason is some lesson!