Most

...but not all Men, as boys lack the lessons on how to develop healthy and happy relationships with girls (and women)...NOW, as adults, Men Lack the necessary skill set vital to experience loving and healthy relationships that they may deserve....Hmmmm, sounds like an excuse, right???
     Boys are trained to be task oriented, developing problem solving skills (with, for the most part a good hard working ethic...granted, this will vary within each individual).  This learned behavior induces no real base of development for emotions critical for intimate relationships.  This may create a demand of opening, expanding and sharing feelings that may be difficult to properly express...This may lead down the path of a rocky road of self-destructive emotions and behaviors in relationships.
  In order to circumvent such journeys, a couple must learn to openly listen and communicate in a strong and effective, healthy way...breakaway from that mindset that relationships are inherently negative and difficult situations.  Remember, that bond is a living and existing entity that a couple creates...it must be continually fed in order to grow and strengthen...therefore you must be motivated to work upon it and improve it...perfection does not exist in our world...after all to Error is to be Human.

To succeed, one must OVERCOME (and free oneself from) fears, frustrations, and helplessness in the emotional minefield of Relationships.  Become aware of the many complex and confusing emotions and obtain the Wisdom and awareness of the energy within that emotional floodgate...properly feeding that life that we call our relationship.  Everybody deserves to be happy.

PS will the groundhog discover a shadow or forecast six more weeks of winter?