"KNOW thy SELF"- Socrates
If we look at a relationship as an entity, and you are apart of that entity...then you must know who you are and what you are becoming...
It might be one the most daunting arguments /slash/ examinations since the inception of philosophical debate. To truly know yourself. Words may not easily explain any situation, but comprehending and complying within the existence of that kinship will take a strong grasp of understanding whom it is that forms that life with you. Swift emotional leaps into that frontier before fully ascertaining whom it is that you have created this bond with, may in the end lead through a tumultuous road. Therefore, if we take our time to know whom it is that forms this bond, this in turn Will lead us to a resilient promise in our choices of alliance.
Once we know the who, and understand (or to the best of our ability)...this is where true strength evolves...The strength of a friendship resides upon the confidence and trust established during the creation of the foundation in the companionship. I know what comes next..and you'll scream if you hear ONE more TIME...buttttttt!!! Communication is the quintessential backbone to any bond=bond. That means equal. Experiencing your own emotional kinetics is without question easy for you to feel...but can you properly express them without creating turbulence? Everyone is different, therefore there is an inconsistent dynamic each individual possesses in adequately sharing and understanding expression...the true skill here is Adjusting to the level necessary in order to fulfill that line of communication. Communication=Communication has to come (on effort) from both sides of each bond. Now that the lines of communication are alive and <open>? Yes, are you with me.? Once they are open, use them...problems that go ignored harbor a life as well. This means that they can growwwW! Becoming recurring....this creates frustration...over and over again : (
If this is where you give up...then the life that we thought that we once knew...will die
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