Thursday, October 14, 2010

Distorted Flawlessness

The line that divides love % HATE....is a very thin line
...It is a line that has caused many divisions...but what does that indicate.  Assessing any individual or situation, one would tend to weigh positives with negatives...and figure how too proceed based upon that computed internal analysis.  That would be the expected in a trial under normal conditions.
Individuals who classify a relationship or situation as entirely positive or completely negative might be dealing their passions from a cantankerous hand.  A hand held from a fragile emotional state...a state centered solely upon the beholder.  Idolize partnership greatness or ostracize with any hint of imperfection.  Could a self absorbed eye see anything different?  This may be a reflection of self esteem and self worth.  This will destabilize the very fabric of any given relationship.  Its a cancerous decay within an individual and any relationship they're connected too.  In order to overcome such a delicate and volatile interpretation and expression of connection, one much accept and move beyond declination.  Creating an atmosphere of acceptance, will only strengthen that connection in any sort of relationship.   By permitting for any faults, weakness, and imperfections...you have opened that door for that individual to walk through, and..merge with you.  It takes a higher conscious to allow for less then the ideal...
Things can change (for the better...hopefully), people change, improve themselves...work for a better tomorrow...
No need to shut them out
Afterall, we are all human, we are all imperfect

2 comments:

  1. unfortunately... people are not like you or i... we can forgive... we can never think ill of others... people change... life changes... life continues... with or without the others... nothing to be upset about... its all a learning process..they just dont understand the learning process... they take it personal... they dont know the definition of unconditional love or friendship...just be who you really are =)

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  2. Perfectly imperfect... Acceptance, mutual support/ understanding/ respect as well as honesty (truth & facts)- keys to a great partnership.
    Come, please - meet with me during your upcoming vacation... at least just 'one' date. Let us see how it goes???.... <3

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