Why are loving relatinships so painful?
What causes this pain?
How can there be less pain?
Take a moment and think of this, it is our resistance to love that leads to conflict and co-dependence. A love of ourselves and each other! Strong healthy relationship exist when both parties are equal and whole partners. In co dependent patterns, the partners have invested less then their undivided attention and participation. Co dependent relationships are predicated upon control and approval which creates an atmosphere of manipulation...becoming a vacuum of impurity, mistrust, and disharmony...sometimes all lost within a Selfish vortex of unspoken words. These destructive habits sap the very lifeforce of any relationship...draining life, energy, and any creativity a partner may possess.
Why do we get ourselves into these relationships????? Selfish reasons often compel us...selfish reasons ultimately motivate us to the dismantling them as well. Within the confines of this disposable society lies this underbelly of dishonesty, vanity and egocentricity...
The catalyst is our unknown desires, our curiosities. What exists outside of our world? The ones who are capable of dealing with those temptations can invigorate their relationship...possibly even rekindling a lost love? Genuine appreciation and an unmistakable understanding of the emotional needs of your partner will undeniably be a springboard to a higher conscious and enhance the strength and creativity of your bond!
Conflict is neither necessary nor desirable, but unfortunately it might be all that we know from observing our evolution through our upbringing and development...
See life through their eyes...understand their ways
Even though this post was created long ago, I will admit to have already thought of these specific topics when it comes to 'you' as well as myself... At 'this' point in time - I see us both as Alphas. We could have practically anyone that we would like but there is something eluding us from being with 'whom' we would like.... We would like a compatible partner on the same spectrum of desire, intelligence, physicality as well as conceptualization - but we are scared to trust and give into another. Our Pride holds us back as well as our lack of faith and trust -
ReplyDeletecome on My King... please, just 'think' about giving us a chance ...