Thursday, October 28, 2010

Love doesn't wait and it won't ask for anything

STAGNANT
                                                      not growing or changing; without force or vitalityLacking freshness, motion, flow, progress, or change; stale; motionless; still

P.S.  Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but rather learning how to dance in the rain

Relationships are shared experiences that create bonds...relationships NEVER grow on their own, but rather a result of the energy between individuals that nurture that growth  
*(never take your partner for granted)
Learn to identify, express, and explain your emotions for the betterment of the relationship; if you don't you will harbor an environment of resentment, repression of emotions, hurt feelings, and loss of communication that will ultimately snowball into a vicious cycle of discord widening any preexisting rift.
How effective is your line of communication?
  
Just as an aside--->love is an attitude NOT an action
you give rather than receive
you share not hoard
let go vs hold on
believe not doubt
FEEL not think
forgive as opposed to grieve (or blame) 
How?
Trust, acceptance, unconditional, listen, fun,compromise, validate, surprise, intimacy (physical and verbal), revisit/reconnect, and don't forget to be yourself!

Its not about who is right, but rather the resolve between the two of you to make the relationship right 

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