When you stumble and fall...
will your partner be there to
lift you
Or
Blame you?
Its a thought for reflection...Most relationships, even in the deepest/darkest depths still have a resuscitating chance to be revitalized through a nurturing attitude and combined effort from both hands that feed ONE heart. A heart that is conjoined through emotion and glue by faith...Yet sharp tongues and ill fated tears pierce through the very core devaluing its authenticity and shackling its partners into a void of sadness and complexity.
Why do we blame? It might be a projection of mismanaged frustrated feelings...and the only known way to release these pent-up emotions is by outwardly bursting and blaming the closest available candidate. (As an aside, it was election day...did you vote?) Becoming a smorgasbord of erupted verbal abuse of sorts. Unreasonable accusations soon become the norm...How UnFair!
Step one, identify the real source of contention. Step two, credibly evaluate the legitimacy of the concern. Third, reasonably discuss the issue and peacefully (once and for all) resolve the problem...Simple, Yes? Maybe? From my eye, its always easier when the target is afarrrr...but when its my fire, i seem to get burnzzz on my hand.
Will this divide or will this unite?
Blame is not the disease but the symptom that will plague your relationship...
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