Tuesday, November 9, 2010

False Devotions

Fidelity:  the quality or state of being faithful; accuracy in details; exactness

Infidelity:  lack of belief of religion; unfaithfulness to a moral obligation: disloyalty; marital unfaithfulness or an instance of it

Jealousy:  intolerant of rivalry or unfaithfulness, disposed to suspect rivalry or unfaithfulness; hostile toward a rival or one believed to enjoy an advantage; vigilant in guarding a possession
What Happens...
     In reaction to a perceived act of infidel.?.?.A corrosive state of unreasonable jealousy
Then???
    A rift may develop between the partners since this can be seen (or misconstrued?) as too controlling.
Next : /
     The jealous partner may seek comfort elsewhere...what a vicious cycle
Best Approach
     A lack of trust is the foundation for jealous emotions...Commit to OPENLY communicate, be honest about your emotions and desires...these are the primary indicators in which the direction of any relationship is destined for.

     Each relationship has a physical and an emotional connectivity that must be met.  It is often seen if one partner feels neglected in either of the two...in turn...creating a  need to fill that physical or emotional void will drive them to seek out an outlet to consummate this physical and/or emotional incompleteness.
    Divorce rates are higher then ever, so why stay faithful?  Staying faithful means you are keeping a promise...fulfilling your word.  Your feelings are Focused...Your energy is Directed.  This places you in the midst of solving marital issues with your partner...if BOTH choose to communicate for the purpose of resolving conflicts
A failure to work together will lead to a diluted relationship with little intimacy and scattered emotional energies.  The richest gifts in fidelity...loyalty and love...A healthy relationship is beyond any physical and emotional tie, it is an eternal bond destined for ever growing love
Everything in life is a choice
Strength comes from within
How strong
Are
You

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