"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate." - Albert Schweitzer
I could not have said it better myself...So True. Even honesty or understanding without compassion will fade within a lull of passive hostility. I find myself continually smirking into the den of animosity, with the feeling that friction and malice is a wasteful road that only circles one back in the path of progression...A vindictive feud ultimately needs to be immediately exposed and addressed (under composed conditions of course). Calmly address the source of hostility (communication; how many times will we hear this? Its sickening), keeping the focus on the hostile stimulus (versus reliving past hostilities). People who feel victimized need to understand that by shifting their focus to a pertinent participant within the relationship, will eventually force a powerful and potent component for that all elusive progressive growth needed to advance along the road of resolution. Communication and understanding is essential to defusing tense situations...its that simple. How patient and persistent can you be to achieve your goal of...resolution.
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