Honey vs Vinegar

     Overcritical and Rejective...would you say that you know someone who is hypercritical and constantly faultfinding.  How desirable do you find their company?  On the flip side is it fair to subject somebody else to those biases?  A tendency to judge by unreasonably strict standards with a querulous and exacting temperament...so captious and censorious!
   The Golden Rule in life is.......treat as you wish to be treated...anything less and that creates a hypocrite.  Therefore why judge?  When you loathe imposed verdicts?  Why chastise when you fear your own reprimands?
    Verbal Discrimination of any sort is a major fault within the stability of a relationship...mercilessly discerning thoughts and conduct will undoubtedly lead to a disrupted connection of a harmonious equilibrium.

No Human being can tame the tongue.  It is a restless EVIL, full of deadly poison.  We can praise and curse with that very tongue...Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?  My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water. 

-James 3:7

What if?  You would share glory, express all favorable accounts...resoundingly choose to celebrate acts, gestures, behaviors, and interactions with your chosen company.  An adored individual commends the highest of compliments...and this will help magnify that stability, that connection one strives to achieve.

Which do you choose?

Condemn or commend?