Tuesday, January 3, 2012

How to Create More Meaningful Relationships

ONE) Be a Friend First!
Know how to Give, rather than receieve

2) Identify Who you Want to build an Authentic Relationship with
The BEST connections Happen when...
there are Similar Conscious Levels and Values

III) Create Opportunities to Know Each Other*
Take the FIRST Step...no need to wait!

Quatro) Get to KNOW them
as opposed to hear of their Superficial Interests
(the former builds real friendships...the later, only shallow connections)

(V) Acknowledge the Posi+ives...avoid focusing on the Nega-ives
(see to find Beauty, not the unsightly)

Six...Share your Life with THEM...give them a chance to know YOU

Se7en Build Trust First!!! Nothing can happen without it!!!

VIII. Bring them in, even in Down Times
Allow for Vulnerability

Nine) Be THERE for THEM when they NEED you
Support
Empathize
Understand
without Judgement
and
NEVER Impose

10) Focus on those that reciprocate your Efforts
For They are Worth their weight in Gold and More(+)

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